I know some Aries who are quite clingy.
(I’m a Pisces who loveloveloves Scorpios, and I often become disheartened that even if I do miraculously wind up with a Scorpio, their infamous sexdrive would be the end of it, because I consider myself demisexual. Yet, I’ve had Scorpios tell me they’re asexual. Uh, moral— there’s always exceptions.)
On commitment issues:
Love can be very scary to Pisces. I mean, to hear a Pisces say that they’re “in love with love” isn’t all that uncommon. Pisces tend to regard love as something really important to them; so many people, I think, would initially go, “Oh! They’d be naturals at love.” In my opinion, the more dear you regard something (in this case love), the more frightening it can seem. If a person really cares about love and relationships, I think it’s likely that they might be apprehensive about it. They don’t want to mess up something so potentially precious. Does that make sense? It’s akin to the concept of, “I’m going to push this away before it pushes me away, even though I really don’t want to."
It wouldn’t surprise me if many Pisces have commitment issues at some point or another in their lives.
A lot of people asking about pisces/libra combination lately! Here’s a quick post on their compatibility.
My take on the pair would be this,
Pros:
• The two signs both have a liking for aesthetics; they’re often artistic, and appreciate beauty.
• The two signs tend to be humanitarians of sorts— they really enjoy helping people.
• Both signs aspire to be in sincere, intimate relationships.
• Libra has more of a “gentle” way of bringing Pisces back into reality; this helps Pisces from always being up in the clouds. Likewise, Pisces can show a Libra that empathy is just as important as justice.Cons:
• They tend to disagree a lot.
• Libras are more proactive than Pisces. Libras are really conversationalists, and Pisces don’t rely as much on verbal communication. Pisces usually let things sit for a while, they’re philosophical— when something is bothering them, they don’t talk about it right away. They think. Libra might “force” Pisces into talking, when they aren’t emotionally ready.
• Many Libras feel frustrated with the “lost, slow” nature of Pisces. (Pisces are mutable signs, remember. Libras are Cardinal signs.)
• Libras like clarity! Pisces enjoy dreaminess.
There’s certainly a lot these two signs can teach each other, but it will likely prove challenging. However, I will say out of the three air signs, I personally believe Pisces/Libra is most likely to succeed.
All right, here’s what I think of at the top of my head.
People say that as we mature, we grow into our sun sign. So, initially, I was confused— I thought, wait. That’s not right. You should feel like more of a Pisces as you reach adulthood! But then you said you had “a heck load of Capricorn and Aquarius,” and that had me wondering… now, this could just as well be some sort of (for lack of better terms) ego defense for astrology (haha), but, here’s my take. I have no idea if anyone would agree with me— but, regardless:
Midheavens often are said to represent our “career path” or our “social path.” You could think of it as the opposite of the ascendant, though that might be problematic. If you have a lot of Capricorn in your chart, I wonder if you’d be “closely tied” to your Midheaven. Uh, let me explain how I got to this thought? Capricorns tend to be success and career oriented. I can’t help but wonder if you have this motive throughout your chart, if this would be expressed through the midheaven, in your case is Taurus.
I don’t know if that’s too abstract to follow, but that’s honestly about the only thing I can think of.
Yes.
& Many Pisces pursue arts of any kind; art can act as an enabler for fantasy, escapism, etc. It, of course, works as a release for Pisces’ creativity, as well as functioning as a type of therapy. (I’m a creative writer, myself)
Taurus and Pisces are usually a harmonious pair. As cliche as it might sound, with a Taurus, you really might be able to “win the heart through the stomach,” or however the saying goes. Taurus tend to appreciate good foods. Likewise, they really enjoy, well, aesthetics. As a Pisces, I almost feel this might be a blessing— we tend to be shy and apprehensive, so a small gift can be a great way to break the ice.
This would probably automatically send the message you’re into the Taurus, though. Which, if he’s not remotely interested… could backfire. So, if you want to play it safe, figure out what the Taurus is interested in. Have conversations revolved around his interests; people generally find it easier to talk about themselves and what they enjoy, after all. The Stereotypical Taurus appreciate visual art, or interior design, or other things visually pleasing— so chances are likely you’ll find something in common in that area.
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Pisces
You’re a creature of the cosmos and the oceans, floating and swimming your way through life. Dry land is your least comfortable realm, so learn to become rooted in reality by bringing your visions and dreams down to earth. They may be less perfect, but they’ll be more likely to happen. Take your wobbly self-confidence and give it a shot of adrenalin! Then, nothing will stop you!
That sounds painful.
I MEAN. Pisces and Scorpio are great together, typically. But long distance? Ouch. Scorpios don’t really strike me the type to thrive well in long distance; they’re very physical. And Pisces generally become depressed when they can’t be around their lover.
It’s anything but ideal for the pair, but I’ll tell you: in my opinion, if there’s any pairing that embodies “love conquers all,” it’s Pisces and Scorpio.
I think these two individuals have a way of displaying their emotions that’s harmonious. The Capricorn Moon and Cancer Moon, in my opinion, are compatible. Likewise, I think the way these two individuals respond in situations and react to things would be similar (impulsive reactions). Additionally, what the two aspire from love is similar, as they both have Venus in Aries.
I can’t help but wonder if the two would feel as though they’re on different wave lengths, though. In theory, the Pisces ought to resonate well with the Cancer Moon, but I’m wondering if there’d be a bit of a disconnect between the two. I don’t think they have emotional responses similarly, despite being able to communicate them in a likewise way. That might cause some rift.
That’s just my initial reaction, though.
Are you certain that dating him would ruin your friendship? I mean— even if the dating doesn’t go well, do you think the two of you wouldn’t remain friends? If you both have feelings for each other, it’s possible that this could cause a rift within your friendship.
Call me naive, but if you two are best friends, I’d like to think that even if dating doesn’t work out, you two would already have such a strong bond that you’d have the patience and effort to try and restore what you once hand.
Astrologically speaking, Pisces and Cancer are a good match. I’d say give it a shot, but don’t go into it worrying about “when it fails and wether or not your friendship will be ruined.” That basically sets you up for failure. You have no idea wether or not it will ruin your friendship, after all.
With your sun-rising-moon combination, I imagine a Libra could be a pretty decent match for you, actually. c:
Okay, so, I’m not sure if I’m inserting too much personal opinion here, but try and hear me through.
This Aries was willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you. As a Pisces, you might somehow contort this into being somehow romantic, and thus think if you were to be in a relationship with him he’d never do it to you— but, I urge you to consider that he already had a girlfriend. Now, if he sincerely only chose the Sag because of distance, and he’d choose you over the Sag if distance wasn’t a problem… I can’t help but wonder if he’d wind up cheating on you, too. We Pisces can have this tendency to enable cheaters, or people who could abuse us. We find ways to say, “Oh, well, maybe this was a one time thing,” or “They can change. I can help them!” Or even, “Our love will be so intense, they won’t want to do those things anymore,” and Pisces can get so caught up in this fantastic view of their partner, they get really hurt in the end.
So, what you’re saying here sends a lot of red flags. My concern is that you’re willingly getting involved with an individual you know has “cheating behavior.” I’m focusing more on the stereotype Pisces have to getting involved in negative relationships, and I worry you’re setting yourself up to get hurt.
Typically, yes. Pisces and Libra will be better friends than partners.
Well, most sources I’ve read say the Pisces-Aries cusp starts on March 19. It’d be a bit of a stretch to include the 16th as part of the cusp, as it’s usually considered part of the third decan… but, I’m sure there are individuals who consider March 16th part of the cusp.
Click on the links so you can read about Pisces III & Pisces-Aries Cusp.
It means, at the time of your birth, you just so happened to have these things all wind up in Pisces. If you’re asking about personality, I suppose all it really means is that you’re incredibly Pisces. In my personal opinion, this could be both a curse and a blessing. Water often can be like that, though. I mean, all life revolves around water (literally), but it’s incredibly destructive, too.
Well, based on just the Sun Signs, I can’t give you too much insight in your case. Pisces and Leo “versus” Pisces and Libra I’d probably “rate” at around the same. Leo and Libra are masculine signs, which can easily suffocate Pisces feminine nature if they’re not careful. Both Leo and Libra enjoy being pampered, and Pisces doesn’t mind treating their partner like a prince/princess. From what I’ve seen and read, Pisces usually winds up feeling “used” in a relationship with either Leo or Libra.
ANYWAYS, let me get to the point. I’d really want to look at more of the chart to give you more astrological advice on your situation. I can, however, give you my personal opinion: You might not feel like it’ll be anything more with a Libra, because Libras have a difficult time going into the Pisces spiritual realm. This could be the Gemini in my chart talking, but I do prefer Libra to Leo most of the time when it comes to Pisces. Libra is very sensual and romantic, as they are ruled by Venus, as I think this would perhaps be more appealing to Pisces, who is incredibly romantic.
Though the two are an air-water combo, and that in theory should be enough to ensure a harmonious relationship… I can’t help but wonder if the Gemini-Cancer cusp will be left feeling insecure. I suppose it depends on how much Cancer is really “at work” here, but, in general? Cancers really need a stability with their partner, and I’m unsure that an Aquarius-Pisces can offer that security. The Aquarius-Pisces may be too flighty, or wishy-washy, or be prone to acts of independence, which would probably leave the other feeling abandoned.
It’s a little difficult to tell with cusps, because (in my experience) each tends to be their own unique blend of the two signs. It’s more difficult to generalize.
(Thanks! c:)
Initially, this combination stikes me as a rather indecisive, probably anxiety-ridden individual. I wouldn’t doubt that you have strong analytical skills, and therefore tend to observe and take information in before you act. Your rising sign is Virgo, which would say that you’re cautious when it comes to engaging in social interactions and are quite methodical in a social atmosphere; however, the combination of Pisces & Sagittarius (moon) I can’t help but wonder if there’s indeed a bit of an impulsive nature when it comes to something sensitive, or close to your heart. I do think you value emotions over logic, though there’s probably a good balance within your character.
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Something intimate, that really emphasizes romance.
I would imagine that includes something where the Pisces and their partner can be relatively “alone.” Also, something creative— or out of the box. Especially if the partner trying to impress the Pisces.
Okay, disclaimer: I’ve never dated, so my concept of it might very well be incredibly naive. But, as a Pisces? Something I think would really get my attention that combines intimacy and creativity would be to go on the roof with a blanket with maybe some pastries or something and just stargaze and talk. It’s simple, not something people normally do, and intimate.
Loud places typically aren’t going to be very ideal— so, theme park dates are normally not a Pisces cup of tea. Just think “small, intimate” and if possible “creative.” Art museums, dinner, movies (at home, theatre, or drive-in), evening stroll at the beach— Honestly, if you just think “What’s cliche, cheesy, and stuff you really only see in movies?” A Pisces would probably eat it up.
I don’t think I understand what you’re asking.
Really particular about some things? Like, obsessive-compulsive? Or… ?
Sorry, anon. :c You’re going to have to give me an example, or something.
Very difficult? As in stubborn? As in, he’s reluctant to be friends with you again? How did the relationship end in the past? Did you dump him? Because if you were the one to end the relationship— he could simply be worried about entering a new relationship with someone who hurt him in the past. If he ended it, and he’s simply being reluctant to give you a second chance… well, honestly, I don’t think this is so much of an astrology issue. In a situation like this, I think all you can do is give it time and keep at it with a slow pace. However, do recognize that he’s not obligated to let you back into his life. :c That’s obviously not what you want to hear, I know… But if he’s not willing to make the effort, there’s really not a whole lot you can do. You can’t force someone into a friendship— that’s why I say it has nothing to do with astrology. I don’t think astrology can really help you, here.