:c I’m sure you’d find you don’t need alcohol to enable your social skills. I myself am unfamiliar with drinking, but I can understand if it gives you the illusion of confidence. If you honestly don’t want to drink all that much, why not try to find that confidence within yourself? It’s obviously not that easy, I know, but if you continuously reach for alcohol, you’ll never learn to socialize “healthily.” You could also try to avoid parties, even though that doesn’t really address the issue. ;; Personally, I think I have that “addict” personality, so I’ve made sure to never drink so I don’t develop an addiction.
I’m fooling around with Virgo and Aquarius. They’re both equally enticing, but as a Pisces, I still dont know the right one to choose.
Anyone who has strong Piscean influences is a person who has perhaps the most extreme choices of any zodiac sign. Pisces can accept the challenges of life and rise to the top, or can give in to the easy way of oblivion and sink to the bottom. This choice is symbolized by the two fishes.
To help him or her swim to the top, the Pisces must find peace through beauty, music, and harmony.
The Pisces needs work which will enable him or her to achieve this. More than any other sign, Pisces has many talents which may be used to develop their character. Many work hard to improve the lot of humanity. Others bring their talents to film and entertainment, enlivening the lives of thousands.
Pisces needs to turn his/her private, mystical dream world of love and compassion into a reality. The only other option for a Pisces is a life of illusion and, ultimately, a sense of failure.
This is a bit of a tough one. Simply, I don’t know the details of your current relationship. Are you close, as it is? Or, do you seem to have more of a crush and the Pisces is unaware of your feelings? Does the Pisces seem to have feelings for you?
See, the thing is, if you confront a Pisces upfront with your feelings, there’s a strong likelihood they’ll flee from you. Forgive the horrible analogy: but fish are very slippery; you can’t really catch them in your hands with brute force. Even if the Pisces does have a crush on you, sudden confrontation might cause them to flee. In fact, the aspect of distance might be beneficial to you— perhaps confessing your feelings will make it easier on the Pisces. They might not feel as pressured, as they would face to face.
I would take it slowly if you don’t think the Pisces has strong feelings for you currently. Build it up first, and then confess. Do it slowly, so as not to startle them and scare them off.
As far as distance goes, just try and keep communication alive and strong.
/was this meant to be submitted to be a confession?
Personally? I do sympathize with you on the ego thing. I mean, for me, it’s more about disliking when people have a very “know-it-all” attitude, and they resist to new knowledge. And though that’s not really what you mentioned, maybe it can relate to overconfidence? And, well, I’d be hesitant to say it’s a “Pisces thing."
Perhaps, as a Pisces— who are usually quite humble— people come across as having large egos because, well, their ego is simply a lot larger than yours? I mean, if you could measure such a thing (1-10)… If your ego was a 4, but the average ego is 6… It would be natural to feel as though "so many people” have big egos. To your 4, a 6 would seem large. c:
Am I making sense? haha.
If the physical distance between you two has caused you to become dysfunctional, I worry that you revolve yourself too much around the Scorpio and your love for him? Therefore, I would suggest working to change your lifestyle to aim towards more present, tangible things. Like yourself? I mean, it doesn’t do much good to fixate on aspects that only cause you grief. Involve yourself in things that bring you happiness; if you enjoy quality time with friends, hang out with a close friend. Of course, this isn’t to say to rid the Scorpio of your life, or anything. Communication is huge in relationships, especially when there’s physical distance between you. Many people use Skype to stay in contact, or other online messaging. Sadness, I think, is unavoidable… Just, don’t let your love turn into something that brings you constant grief.
Sure! c:
Haha, as I was reading this the first bit of your message, thing I was going to say was “Look at your Venus!” But then, you conclude with telling me your Venus is in Aquarius. Now, I personally suggest looking up the exact degree of your sun. Before you panic, I’ll explain exactly what I mean and how to do that! See, your sun sign is where the sun is positioned upon your birth. So, even though your an Aquarius/Pisces cusp, the actual degrees for the cusp are “Approximately 26° Aquarius - 4°Pisces” So, I dunno, say you’re approximately 2° Pisces. Your sun would technically be in Pisces. You could look up the degree by looking up your birth chart.
However. Since your Venus is in Aquarius, I’m going to bet that you might just happen to get along with air signs (Gemini, Aquarius, Libra). c: It’s a tricky thing being born on the cusp like that, trying to look up compatibility. It might just be easier to do compatibility that compares individual birthdays, like this one.
Well, I’m not too sure what you mean by “sexually delicate.” And, honestly, when it comes to Pisces, I’m a little ambivalent on their sexual nature! It’s like, on one hand, Pisces are said to “live and breathe romance,” so you’d think that many of us would be inclined to be quite sexual. And, truthfully, I have read much that Pisces are eager to sexually please their partner. However, I have met many Pisces who are quite asexual in nature.
Now, I’m going to go off on a weird sort of tangent, and feel absolutely free to disagree with me. I’m just sort of playing around with thoughts, here. Many people argue that “asexual behavior” stems from a disliking of the self. Though I certainly don’t think this is true for all asexuals, I can’t help but wonder if there’s something to be said for this with Pisces. Pisces do tend to suffer from low self-esteem. Secondly, I do think Pisces is quite fragile in this area; I mean, we tend to associate sexual behavior as something quite intimate. So I wonder if because of the way many Pisces view sexual behavior, and approach it as something “beautiful,” if maybe there’s likewise a sense of caution. Is that caution what is referred to when you say “sexually delicate”? I’m not sure. But with this caution, and the hypersensitive nature of Pisces, I can’t help but wonder if a Pisces might abstain from sexual behavior… thus giving the illusion of appearing asexual to others? When, in reality, if the Pisces simply warms up and forms a bond with a person, they’ll be more willing to show their sexual nature.
Again, I’m really just sort of toying around with my thoughts here. Feel absolutely free to disregard them, disagree with me, etc.
But personally? I think Pisces tend to either fall to extremes in the spectrum of sexuality. Many can be rather flirtatious and sexual, I think; whereas others can portray a more asexual preference.
Alright, bear with me, fellow Pisces. I think I have figured out what our superpower would be. It would be the ability to create illusions. To create worlds, fantasies, dreams. To create anything, really. But these are all simply illusions. Pisces long to live in their fantasies, in their illusions, rather than in reality. Our greatest weakness, as super heroes, would be our escapism. We would get too caught up in the illusion, and eventually fall victim to our own fantasies, lost forever in the illusions we create for ourselves.
I think I wrote up a post before about “romance” with Pisces where I addressed something similar to this. Being a romantic isn’t just about being fond of romance, or the “hopeless romantic” sort, which is where most people go when they hear the word “romantic."
Consider this: Romantic "of, characterized by, or suggestive of an idealized view of reality: a romantic attitude toward the past." I want to emphasize that romantics have an idealized view of reality. And because you say you’re a typical Pisces in every other way except the "romance part"— I ask you to think about the other aspects of Piscean nature. Pisces are fond of escapism, because we hate reality. We see things in a rose-colored lens, which is very much idealistic.
c: So, really, being a romantic isn’t just about being lovey-dovey. There are different ways a Pisces can embody and portray this aspect, I think.
Professionally? Um, no. I know in my area there are a lot of hole-in-the-wall places that offer palm readings, and things of that sort. But personally, I think that’s kind of a gamble. I know some people offer their services at county fairs, but that’s not “professional.” You might consider looking up online, and ordering a chart? There are professional charts you can order, I believe.
Pisceans love:
- Romance
- Feeling appreciated and needed
- Stability
- Mystical settings/enchantment
- Being encouraged to dream
- Sharing thoughts/dreams
- Having their input valued
- A role model
But they can’t stand:
- Feeling vulnerable
- Feeling alone or unloved
- Being ignored
- Crude behavior
- Noisy scenes
- Having no dreams
- Having no sense of structure
Sometimes I feel like I say things I shouldnt when I’m trying to make sure people keep getting along. It comes from a good place, but maybe I overstep my boundaries with the people I care about.
Time for me to post a confession of my own: I’ve been kind of … ignoring the questions about my personal interpretations of “sun+moon+rising signs.” I mean, I’m sure some of you have noticed that the questions I’ve been answering are a little… selective. Honestly, part of it is because of how long those replies tend to be, and how much effort I generally put into each reply. I haven’t felt much like replying to them, and I don’t want to force myself to do it— I mean, that would only result in a sloppy reply. I’m sure you guys want dedicated responses, right? :C Even if it means waiting for my lazy, depressed self to finally come around? Ha ha ha… Also, it gets really monotonous replying to the same types of questions. So, answering to different types of questions offers a bit of variety! I hope?
I’ll kick myself into gear soon enough. But for now, I’m truly sorry for my incompetence.
Honestly, I would love to be loved - but i can never seen to trust anyone ‘enough’ since i know that i am the type to give more than i take.
Because of that, i usually say stuff like “i don’t need to be loved”/”I’m fine being by myself” & it makes me like a total hypocrite.
I remember reading an insult about Pisces expecting others to open up but keeping reserved and how it wasn’t fair. I’m a Pisces. What isn’t exclusive to my sun-sign is wanting people in life. But coincidentally being a Pisces and not wanting anyone in my life happens to be. I could have lived alone. But since people insisted on being in my life (without my permission), then, I think it’s fair to assume they’ll be making all the first moves.
Maybe that person met Pisces’ like myself: they just happened to have that same belief and life style.
When it comes to handling guilt, I am the absolute worst. If I do something even mildly inconsiderate, I will forever torture myself about it. Even after apologizing. -___-
:u Ah, I think I kind of understand what you’re speaking to. Thank you for contributing with this. c:
Well, I suppose it depends. Many Pisces are indeed introverted, and by rule of thumb wouldn’t be too interested in parties. However, Pisces can be prone to alcoholism and escapism, and I think parties can appeal to that type of desire.
… Does that answer your question?
I definitely think you should take some initiative. Personally, I don’t see why you ought to wait for him to ask you. I mean, why risk it? :c If you two are both really shy, don’t rely on someone else to make the move. Pisces generally are quite passive about taking initiative, also. && Yes, many Pisces do need a lot of space on their own. I mean, many of us desire closeness! But, we really do need time on our own to be with our thoughts.
Oh, it’s not so much a matter of taking and adding the “X"s. I’m personally not a fan of finite charts, especially when it comes to compatibility. I mean, there’s really so much to consider that you can’t put into a chart.
Disclaimer? I’m really naive when it comes to relationships?
But, um, if you’re at “the point where [you] might as well be boyfriend and girlfriend,” … are you certain he hasn’t already fallen for you? Many people are distant, especially introverts. Similar to how a Pisces needs time on their own to reflect, you know? Yes, it’s true Scorpios are heavily guarded, armored individuals, who like to appear mysterious. They try to be emotionally distant.
I’m kind of curious to know why you think he hasn’t fallen for you. Is it because you haven’t labeled it as a relationship? Scorpios are normally hesitant because they give it their all. They’re an “all or nothing” type. So, if you can solidify the point that you’ll be loyal and committed, he might be more willing to give it his all.
Thank you for this. <3
Whoops, should’ve posted this sooner. :u
Thank you! c:
Well, speaking to astrology, the first thing that catches my attention is that the three of them are masculine signs, and you’re a feminine sign. Really, this would sort of lead you to be the most introverted one of the group, whereas the three of those signs have extroverted tendencies. The way masculine signs approach daily things are therefore quite different than feminine signs.
But, you tell me. <3 Pisces can generally get along well with most signs. I’m sure you have a hunch as to what wasn’t working out?
Thank you! <3
& Why not? c: I mean, if you’re curious for a more in-depth compatibility for two people born on March 20th, I’d look at signs like the Venus. Even though you both are Pisces-Aries cusps, you two could have different Venus signs which would make you on the less compatible side. But since you both have the same sun sign? c: Your sun signs are indeed compatible.
Something’s wrong with my inbox. It’s glitching and doing, um, weird stuff. :c
I’m paranoid that I might lose a message or something. So, just a heads up.
Um, please don’t resend a message right away, though.
I have quite a few old messages I haven’t touched…
/ by the way, hello. I’m back from Anime Expo. Maybe I’ll finally be more active? Haha.
Okay, so, I feel silly— but I’m a little confused? If you’re “staying true to yourself” by helping others, you wouldn’t feel conflicted between that and the “gypsy life” (as you said). I think you could easily find a happy medium between the two. I do wonder if what you’re “actually” referring to is a problem of you, putting others needs first (to a fault), and not living your life the way you really want as a result? I don’t know? This question to me seems so… backwards. :c Because, to me, a person who is truly “being true to themselves” wouldn’t feel conflicted between two different lifestyles.
I would be inclined to think most Pisces wouldn’t fair well in a long distance relationship. Many Pisces wish to “become one” with their partner, and that type of unity would be difficult to achieve in a long distance relationship. I imagine long distance relationships would be unsatisfying to a Pisces. I also would think it could lead them to become very depressed, as romance is very important to Pisces.
I suppose maybe surrounding yourself with loved ones might be a good way to cope. Spend time with friends, occupy yourself with hobbies. :c But then I know you could be prone to thinking, “I wish so-and-so was here to enjoy this with me,” so I think perhaps it’s really about doing things you enjoy, and letting yourself be happy on your own. Don’t bring yourself down because you can’t share the moments together, you know?
Ah, yes, c: I’m feeling much better now. Well, physically, at least. Thank you. c:
Hahaha, who said anything about buying tickets? <3 ohbutno. I normally purchase a four day ticket in advance, when they first come out at around half price. However, this year I honestly couldn’t afford it, so I’m sort of just freeloading and drifting around the convention center. Most people I know think I’m crazy for buying a ticket every year. So. ;; && No, :c I’m not cosplaying this year. Again, I can’t afford it.
OH BUT ASTROLOGY.
WELL.
Depression does weaken the immune system. I mean, I’m of course speaking to a more chronic depression. People who suffer from a constant depression often become sick easily and frequently. And, personally, I do believe that when a person has a depressed state, this does affect the entire body. I mean, let’s consider this definition: “reduce the level or strength of activity in [something]." Why not the immune system? Regardless, anxiety and stomach aches are very much correlated.
I don’t think this is necessarily a "Pisces thing,” even though Pisces are prone to depression.
Okay, I finally caught back up on my messages.
I’m going to regret doing this, but my ask box is back open.
So, I’ve been staring at this one for a while— wondering how to reply in a way that wasn’t obviously biased. Because, well, frankly? I’ve often told myself that, in a perfect world, someone with this kind of chart would be absolutely perfect for someone like me. It’s one thing to kind of fantasize, but it’s another to describe “my take” on it.
I think you’d be an introverted individual, but have skilled communication skills (especially when it comes to writing). That is, you’re probably more skilled when it comes to expressing your thoughts and feelings than other people in your shoes. You’re probably analytical, philosophical, and theoretical— but your gemini moon allows you to handle the logical side of life pretty easily. (ie: Mathematics might come easier to you than others, but you prefer Psychology) You enjoy mental stimulation, and enjoy provoking/stimulating thought in others as well. You might not do it in the typical Scorpio way— which would be to purposely say things to get under people’s skin. I think if someone’s pushing your buttons, you’d certainly bring out your Scorpio Stinger, but I’m inclined to think you’d be more gentle about it in most situations. However, I do think you’re a bit of a people watcher. (Which sounds “creepy” to a lot of people, but it’s not, as I’m sure you know? You’re just curious.) You’re also bursting with creativity, I think.
You’re probably more “jaded” than other Pisces. Most Pisces understand the “harsh reality” of the world, and chose to ignore it. Instead, they flee and create their own fantasy world as a method of “coping.” I’d be willing to think that doesn’t suit well with you. You’re probably a brooding type, who can’t ignore that “harsh reality.”
I definitely think this combination would bring about mental conflicts. Depression would be likely, as well as a lot of emotional turmoil.
Hello again.
Here’s another post, apologizing for my inactivity. ;;
I don’t like sounding like I’m making excuses, but I also feel like people have a “right to know” if they’re curious? So, this time it’s honestly due to a mix of personal reasons (ie: not feeling well) and the fact I’ve been busy preparing for a convention coming up. With that said, I’ll continue to be inactive because of the convention. (It’s Anime Expo in Los Angeles if you’re wondering) I’m always rushed at the last second, doing chores for extra money and whatnot, so I’ve been rather preoccupied.
I’ve actually thought about making an awkward, self-degrading video of myself acting like a fish as an apology. But then I realized that really didn’t serve any purpose…
I’m really sorry for the inconvenience.
Well, you initially strike me as a very philosophical individual. You see, Pisces & Aquarius are considered “Spiritual” signs, and Sagittarius is a “Mental” sign. You’re therefore probably rather analytical, too. Pisces & Sagittarius are both mutable signs, which would imply as much. Now, it seems to me your “outside” is rather fluid and changeable. However, your moon— which deals with emotions and matters of the heart— is a fixed sign. This to me would imply that your “internal-self” is much more rigid than what you portray to others. I’m pretty sure I used this example somewhere before, but I think you’d be the type who has a hard time making decisions on trivial things— like ice cream flavors. Or things that really don’t mean anything. But on things that are important to you? That fixed sign is going to come out, and I think give you a bit more of an opinionated nature. Likewise, I wonder if your Aquarius moon sometimes makes it difficult to truly understand and cope with your emotions. You’d probably rather just be a carefree spirit, so when hardship arises, I imagine it’s difficult for you to deal with it. Well, maybe you just ignore it the best you can and keep going— the “grin and bear it” technique— but that’s not really dealing with it, is it?
So I have been dating a Gemini for the last year. I know that we are not compatible at all. But for some reason we cant seem to break up with one another we love each other but hate each other, (if that makes sense). I do not know what to do now…
He is not there emotionally for me and now i started to talk to another pisces and he is there emotionally and everything.. I might be falling for another pisces and getting ready to leave my boyfriend… For the other Pisces.
I’ve been sick for about a week now (and I still am), and my messages are starting to pile up! And it’s really difficult for me to “clean out” my inbox when for every reply, I get two new messages. So, until I manage to get these replied too, my ask box will be temporarily turned off.
Sorry for the inconvenience. <3
I’m just going to post this again.
Because… turning off my ask box wasn’t an invitation for fanmail & asks via submissions. Okay? Sorry guys, <3 I need some time to catch up.
Um, well, I certainly can’t speak for all Pisces on this. I know I’ve read things that suggest Pisces are drawn to water. But, well, I don’t really know.
Hey Pisces. How many of you have an affiliation with water? c:
Firstly, if you don’t mind my saying so, I personally think you sound rather charming. c: In a sweet way, to be sure, but charming nonetheless.
So, the first thing that I think of with this combination is romance. You don’t just breathe romance, you probably ooze it— a hopeless romantic. This combination would suggest an individual who really desires a relationship, and feels incomplete without a partner. Therefore, this type of individual would probably have the goal of finding the “ultimate relationship.” You want to feel understood, complete, accepted, and secure.
You seem like a “do-gooder.” Not so much a conscious decision, but you just have a tendency to… as I said, do good. There’s a definite affinity for humanity as a whole, with the tendency to help and give. You’re probably a pushover, and very passive. Part of it, however, probably stems from wanting to “keep peace” and/or “avoid conflict.” You probably seem innocent to a lot of people, though I think you’d deny such a characteristic. You probably know and acknowledge much, but it doesn’t seem to “taint your spirit.” Does that make any sense?
I actually keep thinking back to the description of the INFP, if you’re familiar with MBTI.
Hahaha, you’re indeed quite right. I hadn’t looked back far enough. Thank you! c:
So, Positive Traits of Sun Pisces, Moon Sagittarius, Rising Gemini.
• Psychological
• Philosophical
• Intelligent
• Idealist
• Creative
»» Thinks outside the box
»» Isn’t afraid to push boundaries
I probably made some kind of comment about being an Idealist in that other post (and probably said something about being accused of being naive? maybe? since it was a bad trait post?). Anyways, being an Idealist is certainly a positive trait, as well. I think this combination would show a person who is … well, I think of the type of character who really wants to change the world for the better. I think you’d be interested in “human affairs,” and though you might be discouraged at times, I think you generally do want to help and “do good,” whatever you define as good. I don’t think this is your major trait, though, or what people notice first.
In fact, I think what most people notice are going to be more of the Gemini traits. Things like your curiosity, and love for knowledge. I do think you’re analytical and intelligent, (but because you change your mind a lot people might question this). You’re also probably fairly good at communicating— probably through writing, as opposed through talking. And you definitely have a message you want to say. You almost strike me as the “author type."
You’re creative, for sure. And you aren’t afraid of going where other people won’t. I mean this more in the sense that you’re probably willing to explore (and probably would love to) debate topics others wont. It probes your mind, and makes you think. Some Pisces are content just swimming in their own fish bowl— but that’s no good for you. You don’t like feeling trapped, you need to explore. You’re an adventurer at heart, a real sense of wanderlust, a person who wants to learn and do good, teach and give.
Disappointing Pisces has proven to be one of the most hardest experiences I am living. I found my old self, & not ever going to allow myself to go back into that dark place. Pisces is the reason for changing & improving myself. I’ll keep walking on broken glass. It’s not even close to how much Pisces hurts from down right idiotic behavior.
How will you proceed forward as a couple based on the stars? Um, I don’t know. I don’t gain insight into the future… I just know a fair amount about the stereotypical star signs. So. Um. With that said.
I do think there’s a warning flag between you two. I mean, generally people with a Pisces Moon identify more as Pisces than their Sun Sign, so it’s very possible you don’t resonate strongly with Sagittarius characteristics. HOWEVER. The Sagittarius and Scorpio mix is frightful. I think this combination is potentially horrific. They both tend to want to do things their own way, don’t like to be told what to do, and have a tendency to boss people around. So. I’m sure you could see why that might be problematic? However. Your moon IS in Pisces— and many Lunar Pisces don’t identify with their sun signs strongly.
The typical sun sign Pisces-Sag match also is generally incompatible.
However, I want you to consider this. If it is true that you identify more strongly as a Pisces, that Sagittarius in you might act like a bit of a special spark. You know, make you a bit of a firecracker. Pisces might drown out the Sagittarius, but it’d still be there— in which case, I think you two might be rather compatible.
I know this reply isn’t very helpful. I’m honestly inclined to say it has a chance of being horrible, or really quite nice.
I’m glad you enjoy this blog, thank you. c:
Also, I’m sorry this reply took so long. I hope you’ll forgive me. <3
haha, how am I? Um, in a tremendous amount of pain, thanks for asking. Oh but, a Pisces Sun, Aries Rising, Capricorn Moon. I would think this type of individual has a solid presence about them. They likely identify with Pisces strongly, but possess traits that other Pisces might lack. Such as boldness, and the ability to follow through with the majority of their actions. Most Pisces think about doing things and never do… or, they start things, but are horrible with finishing them. I think you’d be pretty good about both starting and finishing your projects. Maybe you don’t take on too many at once (like other Pisces), but I would imagine you generally finish what you start. See, I think the Aries in you drives you to act out your thoughts/dreams, and the Capricorn gives you a heavy sense of responsibility and a dire need to be successful. Not in the typical sense of “success = wealthy,” I simply mean you wish to see yourself as successful. So, if that’s being able to support yourself, a family, etc— whatever you personally define as success, you want to be it. Whereas some Pisces are a bit apathetic when it comes to success, and have a “It’s nice if it happens, but it’s not too important,” attitude.
I think you’re rather well rounded, actually.
I’m always falling in love too quickly and too genuinely, both platonically and romantically, and it always ends in heartbreak. I yearn for the day where I can really meet my soul mates, connections for life.
I’m glad you like my blog! c: Thank you. && I’m so sorry my reply took so long!
Um, honestly? It could be a bit of both your Aquarius & Cancer. Now, typically, I think people would rush to blame it all on your Aquarius sign. And it’s true, typically Aquarians have a lot of difficulty comforting people, dealing with emotions, etc. However, I think when you combine it with Cancer, there also might be a sense of a “security risk,” too. Cancers are big on feeling safe and secure, so if you feel vulnerable or exposed in emotional situations (because as a Pisces, you’re probably susceptible to feeling what others feel) your Cancer might feel as though you’re entering a “danger zone.” Does that make sense?