Well, you could try to identify why you think you’ve become distant. Any ideas why you think you’ve become distant? But, well, with an Aquarius I have to say it might be a good thing you’re not your clingy-self, because that’s a bit of a turn-off. However, I think maybe if you two go out and do physical activities, that might help? Like, go out to the movies, go to the park— stuff like that. I mean, that’s assuming you mean physically distant… as, you could of course be feeling “emotionally distant.” However, I feel that spending quality time with others often allows people to open up emotionally? So, I suppose that’s my advice.
Pisces tend to come off as people who have a lot of self-pity. And, generally? People who have a lot of pity for themselves come off as “being victimized.” I mean, it’s probably your word choice, body language, things you’re perhaps not consciously aware of.
Oh, yeah. Definitely. Generally, when people ask “signxsign” they’re speaking compatibility— but I’ve read stuff on parent-child relationships between signs, siblings with different signs, friendships, etc. I mean, take Pisces. Pisces aren’t going to be the same with a lover like they are with a friend. The needs are different. You know?
I think it’d be a pretty adorable relationship.
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Is it possible the two of you perhaps struggle with some kind of depression? I only ask because you say “passionate, volatile, and messed up.” And I say both of you, because you say that you seem to be the same person. I don’t necessarily think your issues so much have to do with astrology, so much as they might have to do with other, internal issues. However, Pisces are notoriously prone to depression. Is that a possibility? It’s only my opinion, of course, but I find people who struggle with depression do have problems with “fully being themselves,” as you put it. Many people who are depressed also battle insecurities… well, to cut it short, is it possible you have reason to not fully show yourself? Perhaps you dislike yourself? Or you’re worried the other won’t still like the “complete” you? Do you see where I’m getting at?
I’m sorry if I’ve overstepped my boundaries— this is a Pisces, Astrology blog. I just can’t help but wonder if that’s a possible culprit? I mean, it does make sense with the Pisces nature.
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Dating the Pisces Woman
Pisces women are very captivating and fascinating. She makes a man feel like a man because of her need for a protector and leader. She is charming, soft and feminine. The ultimate enchantress. She can see right through a man and she is not easy to fool, so any man better be straight with her and not lead her on, because instead of confronting him, she will simply disappear. She needs to nurture and will give the man orders, but only for his own good. She will make sure he is eating properly and getting enough sleep, sort of like a mother nurturing a child. What she needs in return is a man to protect and cherish her, make her feel like she is needed and loved. She might almost be clingy and dependent but never overbearingly. Her partner will become of better half. She needs patience and sympathy and you have to be gentle with her. Don’t poke fun or tease and definitely do not reject her harshly because she can’t stand rejection. She is extremely romantic and will lose herself in the relationship. The Pisces woman is the ultra feminine nurturer, the ideal woman for the right man.
Dating the Pisces Man
Pisces man is is the ultimate romantic, the sensitive man who feels with a woman. Pisces male is the ideal zodiac sign for the woman who complains that men are not sensitive enough, this man is. However, he has such an ideal of romance that is unrealistic and will fall out of love when he realizes that there is no such thing as the perfect woman. This man lives in the world of dreams and he needs a woman to keep him grounded. He always seems to chose the wrong woman, or a woman he can’t have like a married woman that way there is no worry about becoming emotionally attached. He needs a woman who can dominate him, but very subtly. She has to be able to help him steer clear of bad habits and bad thoughts. Pisces man needs sensitivity, generosity and compassion, nurture him and he will nurture you back. A fulfilling emotional relationship for the strong yet sensitive woman.
Talk about spirituality, the occult, astrology, anything that is out of reach of the real world. They will easily get lost in a good conversation. Although they are attracted to people with severe problems who desperately need help, this actually does more harm them good. Even though Pisces will offer to make everything right, do not allow them to take on all your problems because they will lose their identity in your situation. They need a strong positive partner to make them strong. Pisces like adventure, new situation and social events and will be up to doing almost anything that you suggest. Make them laugh, they are usually melancholy and will be impressed if someone has the ability to make them laugh. They are not very conservative people so do not be afraid to talk about unconventional or strange things and tell them odd jokes, they will be impressed by that. They are suckers for flattery give them compliments and tell them in a roundabout way that you admire them. Be sensitive, generous and gentle, make them feel comfortable with you and make them feel good about themselves and all will be smooth sailing!
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Well, I personally think in PiscesxAquarius relationships in general, the Aquarius won’t be anywhere near as emotionally invested as the Pisces. I’m personally not really in favor for this pair. :c I mean, there are some good qualities, for sure! The Aquarius can bring Pisces into reality, while giving Pisces a protective, secure relationship. I just think the odds are certainly against this pair.
Well, still. Yeah, I think people have the ability to change their own personality and social skills. Not immediately; it takes a while. Especially if a person has some kind of social anxiety disorder— but it’s possible, certainly.
Well, I do think all people have the ability to change themselves. At least to a degree. I mean, no one can change their genes— if you’re born with something, you can’t change it… but, I do think there’s a good deal of things everyone, not just Pisces, can change. But when they want to? No, not right that second. It takes time, I think.
Well, air signs are typically independent in relationships— at least as far as water signs are concerned. The problem you’re facing is quite common, truthfully, between Pisces and Libras. Sensitivity is really a personality trait, but if you could perhaps increase his empathy towards your needs, he’d become more sympathetic? I’m just not too sure how you’d go about doing that. You can’t really force a person to understand— they have to come about that on their own. So, I’m honestly not too sure how you’d get him to open up. I mean, if he doesn’t understand you and isn’t all too sensitive… that’s not something you can really change, I don’t think. :c This isn’t the answer you were looking for, I know. And I apologize.
What do I think about that? Well, I’m really biased towards this pair. I love Scorpios. Especially with Pisces. SO. I think you can maybe guess how I feel about that~
Um, I think many Pisces can be insecure— which can lead to jealousy? I mean, Pisces are prone to low self esteem, which tends to co-occur with insecurity. And, personally, I think jealousy stems from insecurity… so, perhaps? Haha, that’s not a very good answer, is it?
I do think Pisces are more of evening people than morning people, only because I recall reading that people who prefer the evening tend to be more creative? And Pisces tend to be more creative? However, I’m not sure if being late has to do with 9-5 jobs. ;; I mean, yes, I’ve heard that many Pisces tend to have problems with being on time, but many Pisces just prefer self-employment to 9-5 jobs, which normally means working under someone else.
As far as books go? Um, well, fantasy-genre, especially high-fantasy. Anything with a dystopian society or alternate realities, too. I personally love magical realism, taboo, occult, and paranormal topics. That doesn’t really help, either, does it? :c
Well, I haven’t read into this, actually. Thinking about Pisces nature, I would think a Pisces believe in fate and luck more than other signs— but…
Hey followers! How many of you Pisces believe in fate and luck?
Well, yes and no.
I think it’s easy to understand the “basic gist” of a pisces. I think the majority of Pisces are quite… well, exposed? I mean, I think if you looked at a person who fit the stereotypical Pisces, many people would describe them with words that were more-or-less truthful about them! You know, words like: shy, sensitive, caring, etc. But that hardly sums up a person! However, I think a lot of people might just leave it at that, and think they understand the Pisces completely, when they just know the face-value. Does that make sense? Pisces are often compared to the ocean— the ocean is vast, deep, and most of it hasn’t been explored yet. Most people only see the face of the ocean; likewise, most people only see the surface of a Pisces! Because, yes, as you said— I think many of us are a little secretive or feel uncomfortable? Or perhaps don’t reveal everything? Like the ocean, Pisces have many layers. And many Pisces, I think, don’t often reveal all the different layers to the way they think, or feel, etc. Therefore, because many people don’t get through all those layers, we might feel as though we’re hard to “get to know."
So, I think it’s easy to understand a Pisces’ nature at face value— but that alone doesn’t mean much, especially since I believe Pisces have a lot underneath that face value.
Well, yes, Pisces and Scorpio are generally quite compatible. So, don’t worry! By rule of thumb, your effort isn’t in vain. <3 Now, Scorpios I think test people. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. They’re quite protective of their inner-self, because I think most realize how sensitive they truly are on the inside. Now, let’s look at Scorpio— they’re a fellow water sign, but the Scorpion (like the Crab), is covered with an exoskeleton. Pisces is the only water sign that is not shielded with a hard exterior! Likewise, Scorpio (and Cancer), are quite protective and conceal themselves quite a lot. Almost innately! Will he ever reveal his true, inner self? Well, maybe, maybe not. See, Pisces are generally quite empathic, and can normally sense what Scorpio’s interior workings are. That’s one of the beauties of this pair. I think Scorpio, however, might reveal himself after he learns Pisces truly does understand him. This would take quite a while, though. It might take a bit of work, yes, but I think it might prove worthwhile.
I’m a pisces male here is my entire chart. I am dating a Leo Female (i’m not sure her moon or ascendant… i know that we need to work hard for the relationship to work (we have been together for almost 4 years), but sometimes it feels she is unwilling to work with my feelings. she can be incredibly blunt and sarcastic and speak what is on her mind without thinking of my emotions. i on the other hand am very sensitive towards these kinds of things, and i have tried to ask her to stop saying things certain ways or to not always speak her mind because her words hurt me more than she knows. she keeps saying that i am trying to change who she is as a person when really i’m trying to help keep our relationship working because i dont want to be around someone who is gunna make me feel bad about myself at times. dont get me wrong she isnt like this all the time just occasionally… but she wants me to not be so sensitive and i feel like she is trying to change my personality and all im trying to do is get her to leave out certain words and sarcasms that offend me yet she feels like that is me trying to change who she is. Any advice on what we can do to make this work and your opinion on a pisces (with my chart) and a leo relationship. (sorry this is so long)
— theonlypathleft
Okay, so, I’m kind of scratching my head a little. Why are you in this relationship? I mean, I understand there must be something valuable here for you to have been in this relationship for nearly four years— but it sounds like you’re quite hurt. Are you really in a relationship where the pros outweigh the cons? Or are you in a toxic relationship you’re desperately trying to save? I have to ask partly because of what you said here, and also partly because Pisces are notorious for not knowing when to back out of a relationship. They’ll stay in too long, hoping to save it, or because they’re scared they won’t find love elsewhere, etc.
A Pisces needs someone who is attentive to their feelings, and if your partner isn’t sensitive to your feelings… well, I just worry for your well being. :c also, if she’s accusing you of trying to change her, and you said you feel like she’s trying to change you… I can’t help but feel as though perhaps you two aren’t meant to be. Now, I know that’s not what you want to hear. But, you’re a sensitive guy right? And it’s not like you can just stop being sensitive. It’s who you are! It’s part of your personality! You can’t just morph who you are to please her. :c
Therefore, no, I don’t really know what you can do to improve your relationship. My honest advice is to think about whether or not you ought to even be with this girl… :c
Of course you could get an Aries or Libra boy. c: But, generally speaking? As a Pisces, you’re probably more likely to get along romantically with an Aries than a Libra.
However, if you have a Venus Sign in, say Aquarius, you might prefer a Libra! Compatibility isn’t quite so black-and-white. c:
Well, I think out of the zodiac, Pisces are more like to be less social than other signs. So, yes. Most Pisces are content on being alone for a period of time; we enjoy being with our thoughts, and being alone allows time to do this. However, Pisces can still be quite social! Pisces can get along with all types of people, after all. c: But being that most Pisces seem to be introverts… ? Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people. So,it makes sense that the majority of Pisces are fine not socializing for long periods of time. c:
It’s just so much better to live in my own world in my head than deal with everything else. Everything in my world is beautiful, warm, and loving out here it’s not. If I could stay in my own world without any repercussions I think I would.
Well, are you depressed? :c Like, not just every now and again— I mean clinically… Many depressed people describe having problems dealing with their friends, and have a lot of problems making friends. I don’t mean offense, but perhaps you ought to seek help elsewhere… ? :c Like, getting help with depression.
whaaat. an “unfavorable sign in chart placement”? who wrote that? xD there isn’t a particular sign in a chart that is “unfavorable.” so, don’t worry about that.
and, are you “more pisces than aries”? Well, you’re certainly more Pisces than a lot other Aries! But, generally? The sun sign keeps the other planets/houses “in check,” and that influence of Aries ought to still be there. BUT. That’s really a call for you to make, don’t you think? :u
… neeiiither. Between the two? Both are honestly fair game. History I think could be interpreted as “Historical Fiction” to a Pisces— you know, perhaps they go off on fantastical tangents while studying. However, science has a lot of theories… and it offers a lot of different fields. I could see a Pisces enjoying the ability to move from field to field.
However, I think most pisces would be most content having some sort of artistic, social science, or humanities major. As far as a “perfect major”? I can’t say. What one major may have in a surplus, they also lack in something else.
Depends on the rule / law ~
I think if a Pisces feels a rule or law goes against their morals or what they think is right, they might be bad at following it. But Pisces are generally “go-with-the-flow.” So are they bad at following rules? No, not necessarily bad.
Well, people can have a fear of commitment for different reasons.
Some people have an intense fear of abandonment, so they push people away before they can leave them so as to avoid feeling abandoned. Others worry about loving someone who will betray them. More commonly, I think, people associate commitment as something concrete. They think they might be invaded— like, their personal space, or free time, etc. I mean, there are really a lot of reasons.
Thinking about the Pisces behavior though? I’m willing to bet it has something to do with worrying they’re going to be too emotionally invested, only to be hurt in some way. Before you consider my advice, please consider perhaps thinking about why they fear commitment in the first place? Because once you understand why they fear commitment, you’ll be able to best address the issue.
However, if it’s really because they are afraid of being hurt, I think that’s an issue of trust. Maybe not so much on trusting you, but it could be past experiences that make them wary of relationships, too.
:c It’s difficult to change someone’s mindset, though. If it IS about trust, you’ll just have to show by example, I think.
Well, your moon signs aren’t very compatible… which would mean that the way the two of you approach things at an emotional level differ. He might come of insensitive to you because of this difference.
If he leans more towards the gemini side of the cancer/gemini cusp, this insensitivity might be even more prevalent.
So, be prepared for that as a possible characteristic?
This is a really broad question, anon. :c Deal with friendships… how?
What are your struggles? Could you be more specific?
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As a Pisces, being able to love and loving love is as easy as walking. We love relationships, whether they’re social or romantic, but with our infinite imagination of love and dreams comes fear. We imagine ourselves with the one we love or are interested in and imagine ourselves with them to the point where reality isn’t good enough. That’s why I feel that as much as we love love, we are also afraid to let ourselves love because we want that exact imagination to come to life. We have to be willing to separate from our imaginations and let reality in sometimes.
I’m a Pisces and I love solitude so I can dream. I’m not very good around people even though I really care about the world and all things that live in it. I’m sometimes overwhelmed by my infinite imagination and my otherworldly thoughts. And yet, I really love them, and I’m a strong idealist. I have a strong sense of self.
I hate how unable I am to confront my fears, I hate how much it hurts to face them.
I am way more organized than any other Pisces I know. And we’re known for being pretty flaky…
I hate how hard it is for us Pisces to let go of someone…
The sea at dusk and dawn
Pisces, the final Water sign, is the mystical, poetic, highly sensitive sign ruled by Neptune. Dreamy, devotional, artistic and not removed from addictive tendencies, I think of light purple and the stain of Bacchus’s grape. Its image is the sea at its most tender, a lavender sea at dusk and dawn.
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My personal opinion? Could it ever work out? Certainly, it could. I mean, like, I’ve actually been told by someone who’s quite fluent in astrology that they thought my best match would be a Gemini! I mean, I disagree with this. I’m way too clingy, emotional, and needy for a Gemini. And, well, that’s actually the problem between Water and Air! So long as a Water sign is capable of keeping their feet on the ground, and not getting carried away with their emotions, and manages to use a bit of logic and practicality instead of just their feelings… sure. Though, I do also think the Gemini wouldn’t need to be a typical Air sign, either. Perhaps a more sensitive, in-tune Gemini would be needed? Most Geminis have a very hard time identifying their emotions, and are… well, quite blind to themselves. Which is sad, because they’re so very intelligent and can figure out others quite easily. Something there I think conflicts between the Pisces and Gemini nature. Pisces being so in-tune… you know what I mean?
Well, I mean, I probably don’t have the best response here because I actually have a small list of different diagnoses. I mean, it’s weird, because with other people, I am incredibly optimistic. But with myself? Not so much. But, yes, having a positive mindset can certainly help you! I mean, if you perceive something to be positive, you’re more likely to have a positive reaction. You know? I know expressing yourself creatively often helps a Pisces. Also, apparently surrounding yourself with water (ie: taking a bath), often helps with stress.
But, hey, followers!
What do you guys do to deal with your bouts of sadness? Specifically. Draw? Paint? Sing? Swim? Dance?
Lol, same to you as to the last anon:
Sorry for the lame response, but here have a link.
Sorry for the quick-and-easy answer, I kind of stopped answering personal compatibility questions because I got tired of it being the only thing in my inbox… ever. But, um, have a link.
Um, all the ones I found haven’t been updated in months. :c
I mean, here’s the dailyvirgo but that’s just a horoscope tumblr.
Though, check out virgocentric ? I can’t tell how active it is, because there aren’t any times/dates on posts, :u but it looks like your best bet.
Awesome! <3 I’m glad you and your Libra are a good match!
check this compatibility calculator? <3
Um, how “we would see each other”? Do you mean… “How would would seem to each other”? Or… ? Well, I mean, I know this isn’t quite the same thing, but about a year ago I met a friend I met online. She’s literally my closest friend, and I’ve known her for about six years. Meeting her for the first time, yeah, it was a bit nerve-wrecking at first, but I think my Piscean nature helped me feel like I had, well, meet her before. You know? I’ve heard some couples talk about how “We had only met for the first time, but it felt like we’d hung out before.” And I mean, sure, PiscesxCancer are shy, gentle signs— but I think your emotions and passion for each other might very well give you that sort of sensation.
As far as living together in the future? I’m not too sure I’m at liberty to answer. Yes, Cancers tend to be quite domesticated, and homebodies. I think a Pisces could adapt well to this. But I’m a little unclear what you’re looking for in that question? Do you want to know if the transition between living apart and living together will be difficult? Um, probably not. As a rule of thumb, the two of you are quite compatible. Pisces are so mutable and fluid it’s usually pretty easy for them to adapt, especially if it’s with/for someone they love.