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April 2012

I meant changes like, personality and social skills...

Well, still. Yeah, I think people have the ability to change their own personality and social skills. Not immediately; it takes a while. Especially if a person has some kind of social anxiety disorder— but it’s possible, certainly. 

Apr 28, 2012
I believe in fate, luck and karma.
Apr 28, 2012 2 notes
Are pisces people able to change themselves? when they want to?

Well, I do think all people have the ability to change themselves. At least to a degree. I mean, no one can change their genes— if you’re born with something, you can’t change it… but, I do think there’s a good deal of things everyone, not just Pisces, can change. But when they want to? No, not right that second. It takes time, I think. 

Apr 28, 2012 1 note
Hi! I'm a Pisces female (Venus in Aquarius) who's dating a Libra male. For the most part, we click really well, and overall we've got a really good relationship. My only problem is that he's doesn't seem quite as emotionally invested as me. He's kind of distant, and sometimes I feel like I can't really talk to him about how I'm feeling because he doesn't really understand. Everything else about our relationship is great. I just feel like he isn't very sensitive. Any advice to get him to open up?

Well, air signs are typically independent in relationships— at least as far as water signs are concerned. The problem you’re facing is quite common, truthfully, between Pisces and Libras. Sensitivity is really a personality trait, but if you could perhaps increase his empathy towards your needs, he’d become more sympathetic? I’m just not too sure how you’d go about doing that. You can’t really force a person to understand— they have to come about that on their own. So, I’m honestly not too sure how you’d get him to open up. I mean, if he doesn’t understand you and isn’t all too sensitive… that’s not something you can really change, I don’t think. :c This isn’t the answer you were looking for, I know. And I apologize. 

Apr 28, 2012
Im a pisces and my boyfriend is a scorpio. What do you think about that relationship?

What do I think about that? Well, I’m really biased towards this pair. I love Scorpios. Especially with Pisces. SO. I think you can maybe guess how I feel about that~ 

Apr 28, 2012 2 notes
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Do you know if pisces are the jealous type or are not morning people (I read somewhere they're often late so they can't do 9-5 jobs)? I just want to know if it's just me.. BTW, do you know any books pisces would like? I'm open-minded :3

Um, I think many Pisces can be insecure— which can lead to jealousy? I mean, Pisces are prone to low self esteem, which tends to co-occur with insecurity. And, personally, I think jealousy stems from insecurity… so, perhaps? Haha, that’s not a very good answer, is it?

I do think Pisces are more of evening people than morning people, only because I recall reading that people who prefer the evening tend to be more creative? And Pisces tend to be more creative? However, I’m not sure if being late has to do with 9-5 jobs. ;; I mean, yes, I’ve heard that many Pisces tend to have problems with being on time, but many Pisces just prefer self-employment to 9-5 jobs, which normally means working under someone else. 

As far as books go? Um, well, fantasy-genre, especially high-fantasy. Anything with a dystopian society or alternate realities, too. I personally love magical realism, taboo, occult, and paranormal topics. That doesn’t really help, either, does it? :c 

Apr 28, 2012 2 notes
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how much do Pisces believe in fate and luck? I feel like I do believe in fate more strongly than others but that may be just me.

Well, I haven’t read into this, actually. Thinking about Pisces nature, I would think a Pisces believe in fate and luck more than other signs— but…

Hey followers! How many of you Pisces believe in fate and luck? 

Apr 28, 2012 7 notes
#Pisces
Do you think it's hard to get to know a Pisces? I feel like I am very secretive and I often feel uncomfortable sharing my dreams and creativity with other people I'm not extremely close to. I see the world in a really beautiful way and it's hard for me to share that with other people.

Well, yes and no.

I think it’s easy to understand the “basic gist” of a pisces. I think the majority of Pisces are quite… well, exposed? I mean, I think if you looked at a person who fit the stereotypical Pisces, many people would describe them with words that were more-or-less truthful about them! You know, words like: shy, sensitive, caring, etc. But that hardly sums up a person! However, I think a lot of people might just leave it at that, and think they understand the Pisces completely, when they just know the face-value. Does that make sense? Pisces are often compared to the ocean— the ocean is vast, deep, and most of it hasn’t been explored yet. Most people only see the face of the ocean; likewise, most people only see the surface of a Pisces! Because, yes, as you said— I think many of us are a little secretive or feel uncomfortable? Or perhaps don’t reveal everything? Like the ocean, Pisces have many layers. And many Pisces, I think, don’t often reveal all the different layers to the way they think, or feel, etc. Therefore, because many people don’t get through all those layers, we might feel as though we’re hard to “get to know." 

So, I think it’s easy to understand a Pisces’ nature at face value— but that alone doesn’t mean much, especially since I believe Pisces have a lot underneath that face value.

Apr 28, 2012 9 notes
#this was a really personal response #leeksandponies #reply
So I'm a march 12 and this person I've just recently started talking to is a scorpio (November 16).I usually reject his type at all cost. But there's something about him, like who he really is. The problem is he won't show his inner,real self at all. No matter what I do. So do you think he will ever reveal that? Am I supposed to work for it? Is all this work good for nothing? Is this even a good match to begin with? Thanks a bunch(:

Well, yes, Pisces and Scorpio are generally quite compatible. So, don’t worry! By rule of thumb, your effort isn’t in vain. <3 Now, Scorpios I think test people. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. They’re quite protective of their inner-self, because I think most realize how sensitive they truly are on the inside. Now, let’s look at Scorpio— they’re a fellow water sign, but the Scorpion (like the Crab), is covered with an exoskeleton. Pisces is the only water sign that is not shielded with a hard exterior! Likewise, Scorpio (and Cancer), are quite protective and conceal themselves quite a lot. Almost innately! Will he ever reveal his true, inner self? Well, maybe, maybe not. See, Pisces are generally quite empathic, and can normally sense what Scorpio’s interior workings are. That’s one of the beauties of this pair. I think Scorpio, however, might reveal himself after he learns Pisces truly does understand him. This would take quite a while, though. It might take a bit of work, yes, but I think it might prove worthwhile. 

Apr 28, 2012 1 note
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Apr 26, 2012 3 notes

I’m a pisces male here is my entire chart. I am dating a Leo Female (i’m not sure her moon or ascendant… i know that we need to work hard for the relationship to work (we have been together for almost 4 years), but sometimes it feels she is unwilling to work with my feelings. she can be incredibly blunt and sarcastic and speak what is on her mind without thinking of my emotions. i on the other hand am very sensitive towards these kinds of things, and i have tried to ask her to stop saying things certain ways or to not always speak her mind because her words hurt me more than she knows. she keeps saying that i am trying to change who she is as a person when really i’m trying to help keep our relationship working because i dont want to be around someone who is gunna make me feel bad about myself at times. dont get me wrong she isnt like this all the time just occasionally… but she wants me to not be so sensitive and i feel like she is trying to change my personality and all im trying to do is get her to leave out certain words and sarcasms that offend me yet she feels like that is me trying to change who she is. Any advice on what we can do to make this work and your opinion on a pisces (with my chart) and a leo relationship. (sorry this is so long) 
— theonlypathleft

Okay, so, I’m kind of scratching my head a little. Why are you in this relationship? I mean, I understand there must be something valuable here for you to have been in this relationship for nearly four years— but it sounds like you’re quite hurt. Are you really in a relationship where the pros outweigh the cons? Or are you in a toxic relationship you’re desperately trying to save? I have to ask partly because of what you said here, and also partly because Pisces are notorious for not knowing when to back out of a relationship. They’ll stay in too long, hoping to save it, or because they’re scared they won’t find love elsewhere, etc.

A Pisces needs someone who is attentive to their feelings, and if your partner isn’t sensitive to your feelings… well, I just worry for your well being. :c also, if she’s accusing you of trying to change her, and you said you feel like she’s trying to change you… I can’t help but feel as though perhaps you two aren’t meant to be. Now, I know that’s not what you want to hear. But, you’re a sensitive guy right? And it’s not like you can just stop being sensitive. It’s who you are! It’s part of your personality! You can’t just morph who you are to please her. :c 

Therefore, no, I don’t really know what you can do to improve your relationship. My honest advice is to think about whether or not you ought to even be with this girl… :c 

Apr 22, 2012
#theonlypathleft
I'm a pisces girl, can I get Aries or Libra boy? Who's more match with me?

Of course you could get an Aries or Libra boy. c: But, generally speaking? As a Pisces, you’re probably more likely to get along romantically with an Aries than a Libra. 

However, if you have a Venus Sign in, say Aquarius, you might prefer a Libra! Compatibility isn’t quite so black-and-white. c: 

Apr 22, 2012
Is it normal for Pisces to be less sociable than most people? I'm fine with not socializing with people for long periods of time.

Well, I think out of the zodiac, Pisces are more like to be less social than other signs. So, yes. Most Pisces are content on being alone for a period of time; we enjoy being with our thoughts, and being alone allows time to do this. However, Pisces can still be quite social! Pisces can get along with all types of people, after all. c: But being that most Pisces seem to be introverts… ? Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people. So,it makes sense that the majority of Pisces are fine not socializing for long periods of time. c:

Apr 18, 2012 12 notes
Pisces Confession:

It’s just so much better to live in my own world in my head than deal with everything else. Everything in my world is beautiful, warm, and loving out here it’s not. If I could stay in my own world without any repercussions I think I would.

Apr 18, 2012 63 notes
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I really have problems dealing with friends, on different situations. Also making new friendships, still don't know why I so much friends, when I'm unable to make new friends.

Well, are you depressed? :c Like, not just every now and again— I mean clinically… Many depressed people describe having problems dealing with their friends, and have a lot of problems making friends. I don’t mean offense, but perhaps you ought to seek help elsewhere… ? :c Like, getting help with depression. 

Apr 18, 2012 2 notes
Hello :) I'm an Aries Sun with my Moon, Mercury, Mars, Saturn, and my 7th house in Pisces. Does this make me more Pisces than Aries? I have also read that Pisces is an unfavorable sign in chart placement :( what does all this Pisces in my chart mean?

whaaat. an “unfavorable sign in chart placement”? who wrote that? xD there isn’t a particular sign in a chart that is “unfavorable.” so, don’t worry about that.

and, are you “more pisces than aries”? Well, you’re certainly more Pisces than a lot other Aries! But, generally? The sun sign keeps the other planets/houses “in check,” and that influence of Aries ought to still be there. BUT. That’s really a call for you to make, don’t you think? :u 

Apr 18, 2012
#chronic-indecision08 #reply
What do you see a pisces studying history or science? (What do you think is a perfect major for a pisces? )

… neeiiither. Between the two? Both are honestly fair game. History I think could be interpreted as “Historical Fiction” to a Pisces— you know, perhaps they go off on fantastical tangents while studying. However, science has a lot of theories… and it offers a lot of different fields. I could see a Pisces enjoying the ability to move from field to field. 

However, I think most pisces would be most content having some sort of artistic, social science, or humanities major. As far as a “perfect major”? I can’t say. What one major may have in a surplus, they also lack  in something else. 

Apr 18, 2012 1 note
Are Pisces bad at following rules and or laws?

Depends on the rule / law ~

I think if a Pisces feels a rule or law goes against their morals or what they think is right, they might be bad at following it. But Pisces are generally “go-with-the-flow.” So are they bad at following rules? No, not necessarily bad. 

Apr 18, 2012 3 notes
How do I help my Pisces overcome their fear of commitment?

Well, people can have a fear of commitment for different reasons.

Some people have an intense fear of abandonment, so they push people away before they can leave them so as to avoid feeling abandoned. Others worry about loving someone who will betray them. More commonly, I think, people associate commitment as something concrete. They think they might be invaded— like, their personal space, or free time, etc. I mean, there are really a lot of reasons.

Thinking about the Pisces behavior though? I’m willing to bet it has something to do with worrying they’re going to be too emotionally invested, only to be hurt in some way. Before you consider my advice, please consider perhaps thinking about why they fear commitment in the first place? Because once you understand why they fear commitment, you’ll be able to best address the issue.

However, if it’s really because they are afraid of being hurt, I think that’s an issue of trust. Maybe not so much on trusting you, but it could be past experiences that make them wary of relationships, too. 

:c It’s difficult to change someone’s mindset, though. If it IS about trust, you’ll just have to show by example, I think. 

Apr 18, 2012 7 notes
I have a possible almost relationship with a cancer/gemini cusp, he has a sag moon too. My moon sign is Taurus, I'm a pisces. Should there be anything I should watch out for, or prepare myself for things?

Well, your moon signs aren’t very compatible… which would mean that the way the two of you approach things at an emotional level differ. He might come of insensitive to you because of this difference.

If he leans more towards the gemini side of the cancer/gemini cusp, this insensitivity might be even more prevalent. 

So, be prepared for that as a possible characteristic? 

Apr 18, 2012
#anniedancingprincess #reply
how does pisces usually deal with friendships? I mean, I'm so fucked up.

This is a really broad question, anon. :c Deal with friendships… how? 

What are your struggles? Could you be more specific?

Apr 18, 2012

I have a small handful of messages in my inbox— I promise I’m not ignoring you! <3 I’ll try and reply to you all soon. You see, I think all of my teachers meet and conspire to purposely pile up my homework at the same time, or something… 

Apr 18, 2012
Pisces Confession:

As a Pisces, being able to love and loving love is as easy as walking. We love relationships, whether they’re social or romantic, but with our infinite imagination of love and dreams comes fear. We imagine ourselves with the one we love or are interested in and imagine ourselves with them to the point where reality isn’t good enough. That’s why I feel that as much as we love love, we are also afraid to let ourselves love because we want that exact imagination to come to life. We have to be willing to separate from our imaginations and let reality in sometimes. 

Apr 16, 2012 103 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I’m a Pisces and I love solitude so I can dream. I’m not very good around people even though I really care about the world and all things that live in it. I’m sometimes overwhelmed by my infinite imagination and my otherworldly thoughts. And yet, I really love them, and I’m a strong idealist. I have a strong sense of self.

Apr 16, 2012 54 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I hate how unable I am to confront my fears, I hate how much it hurts to face them.

Apr 16, 2012 22 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I am way more organized than any other Pisces I know. And we’re known for being pretty flaky…

Apr 16, 2012 3 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I hate how hard it is for us Pisces to let go of someone…

Apr 15, 2012 48 notes
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Find Your Colorscope!color-scope.com

The sea at dusk and dawn

Pisces, the final Water sign, is the mystical, poetic, highly sensitive sign ruled by Neptune. Dreamy, devotional, artistic and not removed from addictive tendencies, I think of light purple and the stain of Bacchus’s grape. Its image is the sea at its most tender, a lavender sea at dusk and dawn.

Apr 15, 2012 5 notes
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When I'm sad I usually find music I can relate to. When I'm angry I usually write music. Hope this helps.

* For the sad Pisces

Thanks! <3 

Apr 15, 2012
As a pisces, I feel a strong connection to music and the performance arts, so I overcome my depression and sad stages by singing, writing songs (Jazz is a very good genre as an honest and real type of music, especially in the lyrics) and I also dance. It really helps with a lot of my anxiety, and overcoming my fears.

* For the sad Pisces

Thank you! <3  

Apr 15, 2012 1 note
I can't reply to that ask so... I'll tell you here. I dance/sing (badly)/write poetry when I'm sad. Or just talk. But usually writing gets my feelings out... but sometimes it just makes it worse.

* For the sad Pisces 

Thank you! <3

Apr 15, 2012
#twisted-desires-x #reply
When I'm sad I ussually write a song. when I'm angry, I draw. these things really clear my feelings, I used to write texts when I was sad too, that might work...

* For the sad Pisces

Thank you!

Apr 15, 2012 2 notes
#twisted-desires-x
I know Pisces females and male Gemini's don't really work as Gemini's are more logic - facts wise and Pisces are more emotional, what if the Pisces is balanced? Has a good sense of logical thinking yet can also be emotional - basically has Gemini traits as well and Gemini having Pisces traits? I just want your personal opinion of it, do you think it could ever work out?

My personal opinion? Could it ever work out? Certainly, it could. I mean, like, I’ve actually been told by someone who’s quite fluent in astrology that they thought my best match would be a Gemini! I mean, I disagree with this. I’m way too clingy, emotional, and needy for a Gemini. And, well, that’s actually the problem between Water and Air! So long as a Water sign is capable of keeping their feet on the ground, and not getting carried away with their emotions, and manages to use a bit of logic and practicality instead of just their feelings… sure. Though, I do also think the Gemini wouldn’t need to be a typical Air sign, either. Perhaps a more sensitive, in-tune Gemini would be needed? Most Geminis have a very hard time identifying their emotions, and are… well, quite blind to themselves. Which is sad, because they’re so very intelligent and can figure out others quite easily. Something there I think conflicts between the Pisces and Gemini nature. Pisces being so in-tune… you know what I mean? 

Apr 15, 2012 1 note
As a pisces, I feel that my negative/sad feelings are so intense that I feel like I have depression! (I know I don't). So I was wondering how other pisces deal with this if they experience it? I usually try to think more positive but I'm still working on this haha :)

Well, I mean, I probably don’t have the best response here because I actually have a small list of different diagnoses. I mean, it’s weird, because with other people, I am incredibly optimistic. But with myself? Not so much. But, yes, having a positive mindset can certainly help you! I mean, if you perceive something to be positive, you’re more likely to have a positive reaction. You know? I know expressing yourself creatively often helps a Pisces. Also, apparently surrounding yourself with water (ie: taking a bath), often helps with stress.

But, hey, followers!
What do you guys do to deal with your bouts of sadness? Specifically. Draw? Paint? Sing? Swim? Dance? 

Apr 15, 2012 3 notes
#twisted-desires-x #reply
What do you think about c Capricorn man and Pisces woman?

Lol, same to you as to the last anon:
Sorry for the lame response, but here have a link. 

Apr 15, 2012
what do you think about a relationship between a pisces man and a saggitarius woman ?

Sorry for the quick-and-easy answer, I kind of stopped answering personal compatibility questions because I got tired of it being the only thing in my inbox… ever. But, um, have a link.

Apr 15, 2012
is there a blog similar to this one but virgo?

Um, all the ones I found haven’t been updated in months. :c 

I mean, here’s the dailyvirgo but that’s just a horoscope tumblr. 

Though, check out virgocentric ? I can’t tell how active it is, because there aren’t any times/dates on posts, :u but it looks like your best bet.

Apr 15, 2012
i know you all love scorpio but i've had two mishaps with scorpios and i must say that i'm a libra fan. i love my libra!

Awesome! <3 I’m glad you and your Libra are a good match!

Apr 15, 2012
what can you tell me about a Aries male (March 27 1986) and a Pisces women (Feb 28 1986) that are in a relationship?

check this compatibility calculator? <3 

Apr 15, 2012

Um, how “we would see each other”? Do you mean… “How would would seem to each other”? Or… ? Well, I mean, I know this isn’t quite the same thing, but about a year ago I met a friend I met online. She’s literally my closest friend, and I’ve known her for about six years. Meeting her for the first time, yeah, it was a bit nerve-wrecking at first, but I think my Piscean nature helped me feel like I had, well, meet her before. You know? I’ve heard some couples talk about how “We had only met for the first time, but it felt like we’d hung out before.” And I mean, sure, PiscesxCancer are shy, gentle signs— but I think your emotions and passion for each other might very well give you that sort of sensation. 

As far as living together in the future? I’m not too sure I’m at liberty to answer. Yes, Cancers tend to be quite domesticated, and homebodies. I think a Pisces could adapt well to this. But I’m a little unclear what you’re looking for in that question? Do you want to know if the transition between living apart and living together will be difficult? Um, probably not. As a rule of thumb, the two of you are quite compatible. Pisces are so mutable and fluid it’s usually pretty easy for them to adapt, especially if it’s with/for someone they love.

Apr 15, 2012
#ladypararoar #reply
you should tag the confessions with the user who sent them.just a suggestion because i am curious to who they are from.:) i want to follow my fellow pisces!

I did think about it, but
1) Most of the confessions I’m getting are anonymous
2) I don’t want to accidentally make a confession “public” that should’ve remained anonymous, so to not accidentally totally embarrass someone, I’m keeping it anonymous. 

But I suppose if anyone specifically indicates that they’d like to have their name attached to their confession, I wouldn’t mind tagging them. c:

Apr 15, 2012 1 note
Pisces Confession:

I love being compassionate, but I would like a break from myself for myself; I’m withering away.

Apr 15, 2012 37 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I feel like I have been here before, as if I’ve lived many times before this life. Pisces’ are the old souls of the zodiac right? I don’t think that statement is too far off the mark.

Apr 15, 2012 36 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I hate having to explain why I am upset or what is on my mind. I find it extremely difficult to do so and I feel like the person I am with should already know why I am upset because I am able to pick up on why people are upset so easily.

Apr 15, 2012 74 notes
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Apr 15, 2012 37 notes
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Pisces Confession:

I’m a hopeless romantic. But I’m also hopelessly scared when it comes to love manifesting in commitment issues and constant doubt. I wish I wasn’t as shallow and hypocritical.

Apr 15, 2012 39 notes
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Apr 15, 2012 19 notes
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Pisces Confession:

As a Pisces, I sometimes dislike how we are so filled up with emotions. We become sad even if we don’t know why. If someone asks us why…we can’t even say why it is we’re upset. We’re just so in tuned to the universe we feel…just everything…

Apr 15, 2012 85 notes
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