Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I am an Aquarius female and am currently interested in a Aqua-Pisces cusp male... Can you please explain what is it with the "disappearing act?" I don't understand it as to me that's very Pisces and our chemistry was of course nothing short of stellar... Do Pisces males generally coming swimming back? And if they do I'm such an Aquarian that I would be so cold to him but I guess he'll also understand because he's a cusper."

The “disappearing act” could be explained by one of two things, really. As a Pisces, if we sense someone coming on too strong, we tend to flee. And, well, from the things I’ve read— no, we just tend to flee and be really hesitant about coming back. (It’s like the metaphor people use with doves? If you hold it too loosely, they fly away; too tightly, you kill it.) Now, if you’re already in a relationship, Pisces do tend to swim back— once we’re in love, it tends to be difficult to shake us off.

However, Aquarians also have their own type of “disappearing act.” If an Aquarius feels their space is being invaded, or their independence is at risk, they also tend to flee. 

Aqua-Pisces cusps, in my opinion, have all the makings for a rather avoidant individual. It might be difficult to get this guy to come back around. 


Anonymous wrote: "My Scorpio friend drifted away from him and I were really close and one day it just stopped. And ive tried to talk to him but hell reply to my texts hours later if im lucky or not at all. What should I do? Im a Pisces(obviously) girl."

One day it just stopped? Like, it literally happened over night? :c 

If it was truly that abrupt, he must have some strong reasoning for doing that. I know if I were in your situation, I’d just confront him directly. I know that would anger the stereotypical Scorpio, but that might also be the only way to get any direct answers. Scorpios tend to enjoy being mysterious, which can be a real pain when they’re trying to keep you in the dark. (Which is what it seems like he’s doing). 

I’d really just confront him directly. Texts, and other internet communication, allow him to avoid you and procrastinate on giving you answers. Be sure he’ll be resistant, if not totally defensive. 


Anonymous wrote: "What do you think of a friendship between a male Aquarius and female Pisces? Thanks :)."

I think Aquarius and Pisces make good friends, personally. Aquarius tends to be very quirky and individualistic, and I believe Pisces would admire those qualities. Likewise, I think the creative nature of Pisces would spark Aquarius’ interest. If anything, Aquarius might be a little oblivious of Pisces feelings at times, and Pisces has to remember Aquarius needs their space— but I do think these two signs generally can be good friends. 


Anonymous wrote: "I've landed myself in an interesting situation – I'm an Aries gal with my Venus in Pisces. I've fallen in love with a dreamy Pisces guy with his Venus in Aries! What are your thoughts?"

I think this could be potentially quite nice. c:  


Anonymous wrote: "Would pisces be good actors, singers and dancers?"

Sure. <3 


I’ve enabled photo submissions, on the chance anyone feels like submitting visual pieces to the blog. c: For instance, if you have a tattoo you’d like to share (in an appropriate place! I’m not going to share a tattoo on your rump!), or if you’ve drawn a pisces-related piece and you want to share, etc, you now can! For the visual pieces, I will definitely credit you— unless you specifically tell me you wish your piece to be anonymous. 



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Anonymous wrote: "Soo... Ok. I'm a Pisces myself, and I've always heard that Taureans and Pisceans are very compatible. Well, I think that's awesome, considering my boyfriend is a Taurus :D! But... What makes Pisceans and Taureans so compatible? ((By the way: Love your blog! <3))"

( Thanks! <3 )

Well, both Pisces and Taurus are very passionate signs. They’re both feminine signs, meaning they’re both receptive, emotional, and sensitive. [Water & Earth are feminine signs; Air & Fire are masculine signs.] Generally speaking, a Taurus helps ground a Pisces without making them feel as though their dreams are unrealistic, and a Pisces offers the intimacy and sensuality a Taurus craves. They two are usually quite harmonious. 


Anonymous wrote: "For academics, do the signs reflect our grades? Or maybe grades reflect our signs the accurate way of saying it? If so, what subjects would Pisces be good/bad at?"

At first it sounds like you’re talking about the grades, as in A, B, C, etc. The last bit is quite clear you mean the actual subjects. Personally, I think any sign can excel at any subject. 

Though, I suppose Pisces would probably favor subjects in which they can let their creativity unleash. So, arts. This can range from Academic Arts, such an English and Creative Writing, to Visual Arts, such as Theatre and Photography. And anything in between. However, I would even make an argument that History would be a fun subject for many Pisces, if only because it can easily be turned into historical fiction. I know much of my history classes I turned into little historical soap operas to help me remember what I needed to. Psychology might be another subject Pisces enjoy.

All in all, I think of Pisces as intrapersonal learners, in the sense we need to be self-motivated and we need to associate subjects/materials to things we care about. I think our thoughts/feelings play a large role in whether or not we’re successful in our pursuits, and this of course applies to school. 


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Pisces Female: Psychology 

thezodiaczone:

The Pisces woman is often overly passive and codependent. She may suffer from certain fears and anxieties, including agoraphobia, and be susceptible to drug and alcohol abuse. She can live in a world of fantasy and be pathologically dishonest. She sometimes lacks ambition despite her love for luxury. As a partner or parent, she can be inappropriately overbearing and overprotective.