Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I just recently became involved with a Scorpio guy (I'm a Pisces girl). Everything about him and the way he treats me is absolutely perfect, but he get sort of distant sometimes. I know this is normal for a Scorpio and all, but we started out as just a thing and he said he didn't want a relationship and now it's to the point where we might as well be boyfriend and girlfriend but, like I said, he's distant every now and then. How can I make sure he falls for me?"

Disclaimer? I’m really naive when it comes to relationships? 

But, um, if you’re at “the point where [you] might as well be boyfriend and girlfriend,” … are you certain he hasn’t already fallen for you? Many people are distant, especially introverts. Similar to how a Pisces needs time on their own to reflect, you know? Yes, it’s true Scorpios are heavily guarded, armored individuals, who like to appear mysterious. They try to be emotionally distant. 

I’m kind of curious to know why you think he hasn’t fallen for you. Is it because you haven’t labeled it as a relationship? Scorpios are normally hesitant because they give it their all. They’re an “all or nothing” type. So, if you can solidify the point that you’ll be loyal and committed, he might be more willing to give it his all.


enasnivolz wrote: "For the Long Distance anon... I am currently in one (with a scorpio :] ), and I have to say I never thought I would be able to do it. I crave affection and romance and being near my boyfriend. But if you have faith, trust and love it can work! It will be hard, I'm not going to lie to you. If possible, make plans to visit each other once a month or so, keep up with each other on skype or texts, just remember how much you love each other and think about the day when you will be together again. :]"

Thank you for this. <3 


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indigochildunderthesea wrote: "actually, the stomach pains and procrastination in reality of the conscious mind for a pisces is common. i forget to eat sometimes and boom, there goes my anxiety. Recently, i went to a hollistic healer that guided me to nutrition shakes and supplements to help me increase my appetite. Pisces aren't "prone" to depression its just stages of our life pisces go through with their own chakras. I suggest Slippery Elm to help the lining of your stomach and St. johns wort for the blues."

Whoops, should’ve posted this sooner. :u 

Thank you! c: 


Anonymous wrote: "So I lived in a room with three other girls and their signs were Aquarius, Libra, and Sagittarius. I didn't click with them, I am a Pisces. I want to know why astrology wise! Thank you! :)"

Well, speaking to astrology, the first thing that catches my attention is that the three of them are masculine signs, and you’re a feminine sign. Really, this would sort of lead you to be the most introverted one of the group, whereas the three of those signs have extroverted tendencies. The way masculine signs approach daily things are therefore quite different than feminine signs. 

But, you tell me. <3 Pisces can generally get along well with most signs. I’m sure you have a hunch as to what wasn’t working out? 


Anonymous wrote: "hi. absolutely love your blog!! i'm just wondering about two march 20ths. could that work? thanks love :)"

Thank you! <3

& Why not? c: I mean, if you’re curious for a more in-depth compatibility for two people born on March 20th, I’d look at signs like the Venus. Even though you both are Pisces-Aries cusps, you two could have different Venus signs which would make you on the less compatible side. But since you both have the same sun sign? c: Your sun signs are indeed compatible. 


Pisceans are receptive, intuitive and emotional, imaginative, romantic, impressionable and mystical, adaptable, and very changeable. 


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Something’s wrong with my inbox. It’s glitching and doing, um, weird stuff. :c
I’m paranoid that I might lose a message or something. So, just a heads up.
Um, please don’t resend a message right away, though.
I have quite a few old messages I haven’t touched… 

/ by the way, hello. I’m back from Anime Expo. Maybe I’ll finally be more active? Haha.


Anonymous wrote: "Pisces sun, Scorpio moon, Sagg rising. I waver between "staying true to myself" by helping others vs. living the Sagg gypsy life. It's a constant battle. Any advice?"

Okay, so, I feel silly— but I’m a little confused? If you’re “staying true to yourself” by helping others, you wouldn’t feel conflicted between that and the “gypsy life” (as you said). I think you could easily find a happy medium between the two. I do wonder if what you’re “actually” referring to is a problem of you, putting others needs first (to a fault), and not living your life the way you really want as a result? I don’t know? This question to me seems so… backwards. :c Because, to me, a person who is truly “being true to themselves” wouldn’t feel conflicted between two different lifestyles. 


cherrymelodies-deactivated20121 wrote: "Do you know how Pisces deal with long distance relationships? Do you know how they should go about dealing with them? Someone who I love very much is away from me for a while, and when they come back we're going to have to leave each other again. Sadface. It's very hard for me..."

I would be inclined to think most Pisces wouldn’t fair well in a long distance relationship. Many Pisces wish to “become one” with their partner, and that type of unity would be difficult to achieve in a long distance relationship. I imagine long distance relationships would be unsatisfying to a Pisces. I also would think it could lead them to become very depressed, as romance is very important to Pisces.

I suppose maybe surrounding yourself with loved ones might be a good way to cope. Spend time with friends, occupy yourself with hobbies. :c But then I know you could be prone to thinking, “I wish so-and-so was here to enjoy this with me,” so I think perhaps it’s really about doing things you enjoy, and letting yourself be happy on your own. Don’t bring yourself down because you can’t share the moments together, you know? 


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Anonymous wrote: "Have fun at AX& hope you're better by then! I always wanted to go but tix are expensive. Will you be cospaying? Anyhoos, I came to ask if its a Pisces thing to be sick when depressed? Sometimes I get stomache aches or I feel anxiety when I'm feeling negative."

Ah, yes, c: I’m feeling much better now. Well, physically, at least. Thank you. c:

Hahaha, who said anything about buying tickets? <3 ohbutno. I normally purchase a four day ticket in advance, when they first come out at around half price. However, this year I honestly couldn’t afford it, so I’m sort of just freeloading and drifting around the convention center. Most people I know think I’m crazy for buying a ticket every year. So. ;; && No, :c I’m not cosplaying this year. Again, I can’t afford it.

OH BUT ASTROLOGY.

WELL.

Depression does weaken the immune system. I mean, I’m of course speaking to a more chronic depression. People who suffer from a constant depression often become sick easily and frequently. And, personally, I do believe that when a person has a depressed state, this does affect the entire body. I mean, let’s consider this definition: “reduce the level or strength of activity in [something]." Why not the immune system? Regardless, anxiety and stomach aches are very much correlated. 

I don’t think this is necessarily a "Pisces thing,” even though Pisces are prone to depression.