Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I understand that many Pisces are imaginative and thoughtful people, but sometimes (many times) there's really not much on my mind, except for insecurities and lots of worrying. I'm really absent out there. Thoughts?"

Okay, so, for whatever reason Anon… this is really confusing me. 

Are you saying you’re absent minded a lot of the time, or are you frequently “aloof, while also thinking about insecurities and your worries.” Like, I couldn’t tell. You say you’re “really absent,” but you also say you’re occupied with your insecurities and worries— I’m getting mixed messages. Do you associate these preoccupations with insecurities/worries as being absent? Are you actually referring to dissociative behaviors? … Am I over-thinking this and just making myself look absolutely ridiculous? 

… THESE, ANON, ARE MY THOUGHTS. 

This reply is useless. I’m sorry, anon, I’m unsure how to direct my answer. Could you perhaps… maybe… help resolve my confusion? By either addressing what I mentioned, rewording what you wrote, etc? I do wish to provide you with a thoughtful response, but I’m unsure exactly what you desire of me. :c 


Anonymous wrote: "Sun in Pisces, Moon in Sagittarius, Rising Gemini. Could you tell me anything bad about this?"

Wait wait wait. 

You want me to tell you… your bad traits? Or is this a yes or no question? Um, yes, I could. But… do you actually want to hear the bad things about this combination, anon? I’m just not accustomed to people coming to me, asking about the bad things about their signs… o___o 

I’ll tell you, anon, because I don’t want to hassle you with messaging me again— but just understand that I’m not accusing you of definitely having these traits. I don’t know you, you don’t know me. I’m just speaking strictly to astrology. Okay?

I imagine someone with these combinations would be rather adventurous, at least for a Pisces. Unfortunately, I think perhaps with this comes a bit of impulsivity. All three of these signs are mutable, so you’re probably very indecisive. You know, the type who’s more comfortable before they make a decision? Because, once you try to settle on something, it’s, “Did I make the right decision? What if something better comes along? What if I can’t commit to this?” Which leads me to my next trait— commitment. There’s not necessarily a fear of commitment, but a hesitance. Anxiety and restlessness are probably problems, too. I wonder if you’d get “stuck” in your head a lot. I have a hard time explaining what I mean by this (but if you resonate with this, you’ll understand, I think). But, I suppose what I mean is you might get very… mental. Like, you’d get stuck on a concept or idea, and perhaps become unable to see a bigger picture, and then become unwilling to  move forward or change. Also when “stuck,” I think perhaps you might forget to be sensitive to the emotions of others [common with Gemini & Sagittarius] (which might take you by surprise! I think when you’re not “stuck” it’s very easy to see a larger picture and be sensitive to emotions, as a Pisces). 

Lastly, you might occasionally be accused of being naive (mainly due to your moon in sagittarius). 


Pisces Confession: 

Sometimes I firmly believe that I’m too intense for any partner. Like my romantic behaviors just scare instead of express the magnitude in which I love a person.


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heavy-cloud-no-rain wrote: "To the Pisces that just broke up with her Taurus, he's gonna be a lot more stubborn about this than you'd think. He's probably a little more than butt-hurt and may not want to talk to you at all. I just broke up with a Taurus 2 weeks ago and she's been absolutely livid with me since. And when I tried to talk to her to get her back, she told people I was obsessed with her and then she got a new girlfriend. Just giving a realistic perspective :("

^ I actually meant to say something to this affect before I responded, but I got distracted. ;; which reminds me I need to go take my adderal oops

I know a lot of Taurus who move on from relationships very quickly. I’m not sure if it’s a “rule of thumb,” but I do know that Taurus who feel hurt can be very stubborn.  


Anonymous wrote: "I am a Pisces and my venus is an Aries. What does that mean?"

It means your Venus Sign is in Aries. 


hahahaha. Okay,
so, the Venus Sign tells us how we approach relationships, and what gives us the most pleasure out of relationships. 

Venus rules our sentiments, what we value, and the pleasure we take in life. Grace, charm, and beauty are all ruled by Venus. Through Venus, we learn about our tastes, pleasures, artistic inclinations, and what makes us happy.  

My Venus is also in Aries— which for the longest time I was like, “No. This is… horribly inaccurate.” But then I found out it was squared by Neptune and all was right in the world again. Which actually is still hilarious because nothing is “right in the world” if you’re squared by Neptune. Hahaha. Astrology humor. I’m such a nerd

Anyways, it means that Aries guides how you approach relationships, basically. If you’d like to read more about Venus in Aries, read here. c: If  that sounds completely blasphemous to you— and in fact the antithesis of you… I’d suggest looking into getting a natal chart to see if your Venus is also squared by Neptune. 


Anonymous wrote: "I'm a Pisces and I just broke up with my Taurus boyfriend. I want to know how I can win him back."

Appeal to his sensual side. Try to make yourself look as appealing as you can— good hygiene, maybe a nice perfume. Maybe buy yourself a new, flattering, but classy, shirt/pant/etc that will catch his eye. I don’t mean to sound somehow shallow, but Taurus are notedly attracted to sensuality and individuals who are especially attractive.

Also, though, you said “I just broke up with” … ? So, you broke up with him? Um, why not just talk to him, then? I mean, I’m really naive when it comes to relationships— but what’s stopping you from just talking to him and telling him it was “an impulsive decision” and ask him if he’d consider taking you back… ?  Or, um, is that not something people do? 


Anonymous wrote: "i'm having a little trouble with the boy i like. see, the thing is that i DO like him a lot, a lot a lot a lot!!! but like a typical pisces i'm so emotional that i overcompensate by trying to appear detached, so he feels like i don't like him as much as he likes me and i don't know what else to say to him to let him know that i DO! and he tells me that it's up to me to say when i wanna be exclusive or whatever, but i'm not assertive enough for that!!! help <3"

Why not try to come out of your comfort zone? I mean, you said you’re trying to appear detached… so, well, stop trying. That’s easier said than done, I suppose, but if this guy just isn’t buying it— then you have to make yourself clear. Not just by words, but with your overall presence. It doesn’t have to be a huge change, or anything, just try to do little things to get his attention that you wouldn’t normally do? 


Anonymous wrote: "I feel like I give a lot, and that I'm always putting my 100% into relationships and friendships and connections, whereas, from the other person, I find that I get little to nothing. I feel like I always need attention, not in terms of being the center of attention (I loathe that), but I always need the people I care about to give me love and their 100% all the time. But I never show it, I act aloof and independent and private. I'm a secret attention seeker. Andit's painful. Normal Pisces?"

Well, I do think— and I have read in multiple sources— that Pisces need the affirmation that they are loved. Perhaps Pisces are attention seekers? Though, I do not think it is in the way people typically mean it. As you said, you want to make sure the people you love, are loving you. That your feelings are reciprocated. Whereas, I think most people use the term “attention seeker” to refer to individuals who do impulsive things, or say provoking things to get the attention of others. So perhaps “secret attention seeker” was very appropriate of you to say.

I mean, I personally don't sympathize with this. Whereas I do feel as though I put my all into my friendships (as I’ve never been in a relationship), I don’t look/crave that constant affirmation I’ve read that Pisces notoriously need. I’m willing to think it’s normal, in the sense that a good amount of Pisces feel this way. Likewise, I think it’s very appropriate to want your loved ones to reciprocate your feelings. 


Pisces Confession: 

I always get way too attached to people and to things in general, and it’s always the most painful experience when I have to leave them, even if I’m not aware that I’m so attached. It always comes too late because I can be so stubborn with love even though I’m really a passionate lover at heart.


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Pisces Confession: 

GAH! My best friend is a Capricorn and I’m head over fins right now in love with him! I think its because he has the need to protect me. But he’s very un-open to a relationship right now and I have no idea how he feels about me. I’m getting antsy, I don’t know if he’s going to keep letting me swim in circles around him…


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