Pisces Paradox

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charlamain wrote: "What do you think of a double Pisces double Aquarius match? <3 rre :}"

Generally, Pisces/Aquarius doesn’t work out. So, as a double Pisces and a double Aquarius? I’m inclined to think this wouldn’t work out. :c The Pisces wouldn’t feel emotionally satisfied or connected with the Aquarius; we Pisces tend to love the idea of “oneness” and “becoming one” with our partner, whereas Aquarius would detest this idea because of how much they value their independence. Likewise, Aquarius would feel suffocated by the Pisces, and how clingy they tend to be. :c


Anonymous wrote: "Is it a Pisces thing to be really open with your heart? Allow me to specify: I have certain attractions to aloooot of guys. Romantically, I want to be with them. It makes me feel weird though cause most people might have one or two crushes but I have a list. And they're all real crushes, i get the little heart flutter when i see them and everything. I dunno. Im fifteen and gay and a boy if that helps."

Well, if you’re fifteen this might just be your hormones. I mean, with teenagers it’s kind of difficult to tell if it’s a “Pisces thing,” I think… because, well, hormones are through the roof. Most teens have crushes left and right because of what’s going on physiologically. I can tell you in my teenage years, I didn’t have many crushes (but I’ve also heard that males are incredibly horny in their teens, whereas women have the same physiological experience once they’re in their mid-twenties?), likewise, I’ve been on medication that notably reduces testosterone and reduces sex drive.

Anyways, I think some Pisces do fall very easily for people. Pisces generally feel very misunderstood, so when we find someone we feel attracted to, I think it’s easy for us to fall head over heels. However, I think some of us just as equally put love on a pedestal, and become standoff-ish when it comes to developing crushes. Like, we “hold out” because we keep waiting “for the right one.” Some of us do both! 

This was a confusing response, wasn’t it?


Anonymous wrote: "I have a hard time being passionate about anything. I don't know if it's a Pisces thing. What do you do to feel (forced, maybe) passionate such as working hard in studies? I feel like if i don't force myself, i won't really care even thinking about the results. I just have a hard time caring for anything."

Are you depressed? Have you ever been looked at for symptoms of depression? I’m no psychiatrist, of course, but I do know that what you described is very common in people who deal with depression. Is it common for Pisces? Well, I suppose so, considering Pisces are prone to depression. 

As far as what I do to try and force myself to become passionate… ? Well, I don’t feel comfortable forcing myself. I feel as though I’m lying to myself, and that doesn’t sit right with me. When it comes to my studies, I’m a complete perfectionist (who doesn’t even believe in perfection). So, for me, it’s not even that I feel passionate with my studies— it’s more like if I don’t do my work, I become really stressed, anxious, etc. Maybe I ought to be fortunate for that? 

But, yes, I do think what you said is very typical of people who deal with depression. So, if you’ve never seen a doctor about that and have the ability to, I think it might be worthwhile to look into that. 


cherrymelodies-deactivated20121 wrote: "I definitely live in the world that's like a dream, and I have my own inner fantasy self, but I find that I can be difficult to deal with. I often won't say how I feel and I'll fall silent if I'm angry or upset with someone. I'll sort of act cold without telling the person why it is I'm acting cold. But to those I don't know, I'm sort of sweet and timid. And then on the other hand, I know I have an attitude. I feel like it's my need to be heard and appreciated. Is this normal for a Pisces?"

Yes, I feel what you described is quite normal. 

About “feeling like it’s my need to be heard and appreciated,” I believe many Pisces feel at their best when they feel truly appreciated. Unfortunately  sometimes Pisces get a bad reputation for being attention seeks because of this. 

Anyways, yes, I think what you described is very Pisces-like. 


Anonymous wrote: "Every Time I have to present anything I get beyond super nervous, my knees and hands shake terribly. It's really embarrassing, I know the cliche ways to solve nervousness but they don't always work. Any specific techniques to help a Pisces?"

I think most tricks to solve nervousness involve “positive thinking.” I think it’s very key for a Pisces to sincerely believe the words they would be saying to themselves. So, some people would try to think logically about the situation they’re in— but as a Pisces, if you don’t really feel it and believe it, I don’t think it’ll make a difference. 

But believe it or not, breathing exercises will work if you manage to do them. I know if panic gets to you, it can become difficult to control your breathing… but I swear, if you can manage to control it, it works. Deep breathing has components that will slow down your (body’s) system. So, even though it’s terribly cliche… if you practice breathing exercises, doing that before— and if you can, during— presentations… It ought to help. 


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Anonymous wrote: "Do you think a Pisces with an ascendant of Scorpio would make a good pair with a Virgo with an ascendant of Capricorn? :)"

Oh gosh. ….. Maybe?

I mean, okay, Pisces and Virgo are opposing signs, and really don’t get along compatibility wise most of the time. But if the Pisces identifies strongly with their Scorpio ascendant, they might enjoy the stability of the relationship the Virgo/Capricorn can offer.  

I would worry that the Pisces/Scorpio wouldn’t feel like the Virgo/Capricorn is affectionate enough, and that might cause problems… and, again, the Pisces/Virgo combination tends to be very rocky.  

I think it might be tough to get going, but if you can overcome your differences, this is potentially a very committed relationship.


Anonymous wrote: "Hi! I'm pisces and the other day i found out that the veins of my left hand are in shape of this pisces simbol )-("

… I think I stared at my left hand/wrist/arm for a good five minutes after reading this. Hahahaha. 


Anonymous wrote: "Could a Pisces/Libra friendship work out?"

Definitely! c: These two signs are both very creative and peaceful, and I have many Libra friends myself. <3 


Anonymous wrote: "What do you think about a Pisces with gemini ascendant in a relationship with a Libra with Aries ascendant? c:"

I think this might work pretty well, actually. :u 
I’m a little hesitant with the Aries ascendant, but I think the idea of a Pisces with a Gemini Ascendant with a Libra could be potentially very rewarding. c: