Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "Oh man, I am so painfully awkward! Is this normal for Pisces? To be so socially awkward?"

You have no idea how badly I wanted to reply to this with a gif.

Yes.


Anonymous wrote: "I have a really hard time keeping romantic relationships (and sometimes platonic) because the most important thing to me, right now and I think forever, is my destiny. It's not that I'm selfish, it's just that my purpose, my destiny, and my dreams are all that I really think about. Do you think this is normal for a Pisces? Or is it just because I haven't found "the one", in terms of both romance and frriendship?"

Okay, this might sound redundant or obvious, but— my answer to this is going to not be consistent if you were to ask it to someone else. I mean, if you ask another astrology blog, or pisces blog, or something, they might tell you something completely different. 

Many people say Pisces are the most romantic zodiac; that we literally breathe romance. I agree. Most people automatically assume we’re just talking about love here, right? But, well, what does it mean to be a romantic? Well, it’s a person who has an idealized view of reality. I think the concept of “destiny” is very much a romantic concept. 

Romance and what it entails, I believe, varies from individual to individual. You know, how “beauty is in the eye of the beholder?” I think a concept like romance, and what one considers romantic, is also very individual-biased. 

Do I think it’s normal for a Pisces, then? Yes. 

Many people, I think, would argue that, as a Pisces, the “most romantic sign,” you just" haven’t found ‘the one,’“ yet; but, I think your concept of romance is simply fulfilled by a different entity.


Anonymous wrote: "What do you think about a Pisces sun Scorpio ascendant with paired with a Capricorn sun Scorpio ascendant :)"

I think this would be a pretty good match. c: 

I just worry that the Capricorn individual is going to have a really hard time opening up with their emotions. The Pisces individual might, too, given that their ascendant is Scorpio— but I think the Capricorn would guard their emotional-self like crazy. And if the Pisces needs that kind of “talk it out” communication style, the Capricorn might feel too uncomfortable with that. Don’t let that discourage you, though. The signs you mentioned are rather compatible. 


Anonymous wrote: "What is Pisces relationship with other water signs? I had a really good Pisces friend for a while, and then they pulled a stunt that broke off our friendship. Is that normal for Pisces when they are friends with other water signs?"

Well, to say that they “pulled a stunt” is pretty vague. I can’t infer details of what this Pisces friend of yours did, and I therefore don’t know if it’s typical. … Does that make sense, or is my wording weird? I’m extra tired this morning, so forgive me if this response isn’t up to par. 

As a rule of thumb? Pisces generally get a long with most signs, regardless of whether or not the friend happens to also be a Pisces. It’s that whole “carrying a bit of each sign within us” bit. I think every sign has potential to do something to someone that will result in a loss of friendship, though. Now, with Pisces? Okay, sure, most Pisces tend to be really… passive. We put others needs first, especially in a friendship. So if you’re looking at the zodiac and you wanted to make a list of signs “Least Likely to End A Friendship"— Pisces would probably be first. Maybe second, depending on who was doing the list. 

So, does that make it normal? Well, I wouldn’t call it abnormal. 


Anonymous wrote: "So I am a Pisces and my best friends from high school was a Virgo and the other one was Leo and my best friends in college is a Virgo and the other one is Leo Also. Why are all my best friends Virgos and Leos? I have never had water sign best friends! c:"

Haha, coincidence? 
Well, I don’t think it’s too uncommon to find yourself gravitating towards specific signs. I’ve met people who say very similar things (with different signs). I suppose it’s just what you happen to favor in a friendship. c:  


Anonymous wrote: "How is the relationship between a pisces and a libra?"

Click here? c:


Pisces Confession: 

It is so hard to share the world inside my head with reality and connect the two. I think, because of that, I finally understand the symbol of the two fish swimming against one another. There is such a strong difference between my inner self and the one that lives in reality. I feel so frustrated when the two don’t meet. I wish I could always be the person inside my head, inside my heart, but it’s so hard to do so.


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Pisces Confession: 

One of the hardest things we ever have to face, is letting go of someone who is bad for us, no matter how much we love them.


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Pisces Confession: 

No matter what happens to me or who I meet I can’t help but always be attracted to a leo. 


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My initial response is that he was simply using this as a metaphor to put your chart into a tangible form for you to be able to understand. For instance, in my personal Mayan Astrology— the White Spectral Mirror— it often makes a reference to a “spiritual warrior.” It displays a concept with literary archetypes many of us already have. For instance, wolves are commonly used as symbols to portray omens— both good and bad. They’re a messenger, often spiritual, who show others things they are often unaware of or in need of seeing at the time of their appearance. They independent, but compassionate and intense. It’s likely if you asked many people to “describe what wolves mean symbolically” you’d get a list of words that are roughly the same in meaning.

However, it’s always possible that he was referring to a Native American Astrology. I find it a little creepy that you’d be asking this right now— because literally an hour ago I was researching this. I’m new to Native American Astrology, but I’m under the impression that there are different types? Such as Medicine Wheel/Earth Astrology, and Northern Native American Astrology, etc. (which makes sense, considering the different tribes?). However, in one particular Native American Astrology I found, the Wolf is actually akin to Pisces (in other types, it’s a Cougar or a Whale). For information on that, click here.


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