Pisces Paradox

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I want to make sure you understand what is meant by this post, as it might be confusing to some. It says here “volunteer, not the victim.” This is essentially because in toxic relationships— whether it be of a romantic relationship, friendship, etc—...

I want to make sure you understand what is meant by this post, as it might be confusing to some. It says here “volunteer, not the victim.” This is essentially because in toxic relationships— whether it be of a romantic relationship, friendship, etc— Pisces are enablers. They constantly forgive. So, for example, if a Pisces is in a relationship with a cheater, and the cheater says, “Oh, I’ll stop, it was just a mistake— I promise,” the Pisces is likely to forgive and try to forget. Thus enabling the cheater to cheat again. Eventually, the Pisces will realize they have “volunteered” to be in the toxic relationship, and have “volunteered” to let their emotions be used, and become absolutely furious. 



Pisces Confession: 

Lost in fantasy, we are easily considered the most creative and imaginative sign. This is what make us great poetry, music, acting, art and story writing. What restrains us from letting our creative nature show? Our timid nature.


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getyourheadtogether wrote: "Hi im a 30 year old Pisces male, i got huge troubles finding my inner fantasy and creativity, which i should have a lot of, but it totally gone and been all my life, i always feel like a copy cat of others choices and work, cant think straight and clear. My emotional side is really big so this have cost me really low self esteem, and i don't really feel my inner self and what i like and want...How can i find this creative gift as i should have as Pisces. Thanks"

Firstly, I do think many Pisces struggle with this at one point or another.

Is it possible your emotional instability is blocking your creative energy from blossoming? I personally am of the belief that if you struggle with internal struggles, like low self esteem, it causes a sort of “blockage” that makes it difficult for a person’s creative nature to truly shine. Likewise, you say you don’t “really feel your inner self” which I suggest might be your first step towards finding your creative energy. You need to be in-tune with your body as a whole, I think, and this might mean going through some self-reflection to find and embrace this inner-self. After all, if creativity stems from within, and you don’t feel your inner self… it’s natural that you can’t find your inner fantasy. I think meditation and yoga is a good way to balance yourself, but I understand if that’s not “your cup of tea." 


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urbanballet wrote: "Not sure if this is pisces related or not but...I went to see an astrologist at this fair-ish thing and by looking at my chart she told me that I wasn't very close to my fathers side of the family. Now how on earth would she be able to know that?"

Um, I don’t know? I'm amateur at best when it comes to reading charts. I guess it’s possible there’s something in a chart that would point towards “daddy issues,” but I wouldn’t know of it.


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Anonymous wrote: "Is it strange that sometimes I'll just go into a really depressing mood sometimes? Like it will be wonderful and then I'll just feel like crap. Is that normal? How can I snap out of it?"

Yes, it’s quite normal, I think. I mean, I’m not sure if this is entirely related, but a lot of the time with Pisces particularly, we’ll kind of be in our own world— and when reality finally hits us, we become really depressed. However, most astrology sources I’ve looked into does say Pisces are prone to depression. To snap out of it? I think most Pisces prefer to just escape it. However, I think if you can manage to engage in creative activity it might help. Or perhaps surround yourself with good energy? So, if you have a friend or a small group of friends who are usually cheerful, absorbing their good, happy nature might help you. Pisces tend to take in the emotions of those around them— so if you’re in a slump, it might be helpful to be around people who might cheer you up. c: 


Pisces Confession: 

Just because we always dream doesn’t mean we are lost in our dreamland. We are greatly aware of the reality we live in. Sometimes, we get lost in our dreams to find out how to make it a reality!


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Pisces Confession: 

I hate how Pisces are written off as the “weakest” of the zodiac in Western astrology. We’re not. Kindness and acceptance =/= weakness. Sometimes I prefer the Medicine Wheel, which is Native American astrology. The corresponding zodiac is the Mountain Lion. When we Pisces get pushed to the brink, I like to think we bring out our inner cougars - and unleash our claws and teeth. Just something for you Pisces to think about when feeling down or are told that Pisces are weak.


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Pisces Confession: 

I like how Pisces is portrayed as the sensitive almost fragile sign, but I know how to make someone’s life a living hell–one full of guilt and hatred for themselves; a little taste of what this Pisces feels when other signs step on her. Though, you other signs bet your asses that this kind of revenge is incredibly rare. Oh, and by the way? We Pisces tend to have all those parts of you that you’re afraid of letting anyone else see, because you’re just that open to us.


miss-villainess wrote: "good study tips for pieces?"

Study in an environment where you won’t get easily distracted. Pisces notoriously daydream and get off track when they’re supposed to be focusing, so try to eliminate things that will distract you. Unfortunately, nowadays a lot of studying is done on the computer… which is a horrible enabler for distractions. For that reason, if I’m doing an essay or something, I try to do most of my pre-writing by hand. Away from a computer. I also try to be away from people, and I avoid listening to music that I’ll end up breaking into song and dance… 

Also, do NOT let yourself procrastinate. Oh my god. We all do it— but Pisces are so horrible with this. Especially if it’s with a subject we dislike! For one, procrastination acts very much like a self-defense mechanism against failure— and two, Pisces can be a bit lazy… So, like, FORCE yourself to make a schedule. Okay, I hate schedules. Hate them. I’d rather do things at my own pace— but you can be lose about it. Like, “Tuesday to Wednesday I need to do _____.” You don’t need to obsess and be like, “4:00PM - 8:00PM do ______.” I think there’s a happy medium to be found in scheduling, it just takes trial and error and practicing to see what works for you.