Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "So I fell deeply in love with this Aries male (born March 23) and a few days after we had sex and all I found out he had a girlfriend since a month back... It was horrible and I asked him why he chose her (sagittarius) over me, he told me because of the distance (takes 4h with train) and this gives me hope since I still love him and I'm moving to the city close to his in the summer, should I keep my hopes up or try to get over him, being an Aries and all? I'm born March 16 if that means anything"

Okay, so, I’m not sure if I’m inserting too much personal opinion here, but try and hear me through. 

This Aries was willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you. As a Pisces, you might somehow contort this into being somehow romantic, and thus think if you were to be in a relationship with him he’d never do it to you— but, I urge you to consider that he already had a girlfriend. Now, if he sincerely only chose the Sag because of distance, and he’d choose you over the Sag if distance wasn’t a problem… I can’t help but wonder if he’d wind up cheating on you, too. We Pisces can have this tendency to enable cheaters, or people who could abuse us. We find ways to say, “Oh, well, maybe this was a one time thing,” or “They can change. I can help them!” Or even, “Our love will be so intense, they won’t want to do those things anymore,” and Pisces can get so caught up in this fantastic view of their partner, they get really hurt in the end. 

So, what you’re saying here sends a lot of red flags. My concern is that you’re willingly getting involved with an individual you know has “cheating behavior.” I’m focusing more on the stereotype Pisces have to getting involved in negative relationships, and I worry you’re setting yourself up to get hurt.


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