Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I meant changes like, personality and social skills..."

Well, still. Yeah, I think people have the ability to change their own personality and social skills. Not immediately; it takes a while. Especially if a person has some kind of social anxiety disorder— but it’s possible, certainly. 


lanelacy-deactivated20181125 wrote: "I believe in fate, luck and karma."

Anonymous wrote: "Are pisces people able to change themselves? when they want to?"

Well, I do think all people have the ability to change themselves. At least to a degree. I mean, no one can change their genes— if you’re born with something, you can’t change it… but, I do think there’s a good deal of things everyone, not just Pisces, can change. But when they want to? No, not right that second. It takes time, I think. 


Anonymous wrote: "Hi! I'm a Pisces female (Venus in Aquarius) who's dating a Libra male. For the most part, we click really well, and overall we've got a really good relationship. My only problem is that he's doesn't seem quite as emotionally invested as me. He's kind of distant, and sometimes I feel like I can't really talk to him about how I'm feeling because he doesn't really understand. Everything else about our relationship is great. I just feel like he isn't very sensitive. Any advice to get him to open up?"

Well, air signs are typically independent in relationships— at least as far as water signs are concerned. The problem you’re facing is quite common, truthfully, between Pisces and Libras. Sensitivity is really a personality trait, but if you could perhaps increase his empathy towards your needs, he’d become more sympathetic? I’m just not too sure how you’d go about doing that. You can’t really force a person to understand— they have to come about that on their own. So, I’m honestly not too sure how you’d get him to open up. I mean, if he doesn’t understand you and isn’t all too sensitive… that’s not something you can really change, I don’t think. :c This isn’t the answer you were looking for, I know. And I apologize. 


creamy-chocolate-deactivated201 wrote: "Im a pisces and my boyfriend is a scorpio. What do you think about that relationship?"

What do I think about that? Well, I’m really biased towards this pair. I love Scorpios. Especially with Pisces. SO. I think you can maybe guess how I feel about that~ 


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jellyfish-hime wrote: "Do you know if pisces are the jealous type or are not morning people (I read somewhere they're often late so they can't do 9-5 jobs)? I just want to know if it's just me.. BTW, do you know any books pisces would like? I'm open-minded :3"

Um, I think many Pisces can be insecure— which can lead to jealousy? I mean, Pisces are prone to low self esteem, which tends to co-occur with insecurity. And, personally, I think jealousy stems from insecurity… so, perhaps? Haha, that’s not a very good answer, is it?

I do think Pisces are more of evening people than morning people, only because I recall reading that people who prefer the evening tend to be more creative? And Pisces tend to be more creative? However, I’m not sure if being late has to do with 9-5 jobs. ;; I mean, yes, I’ve heard that many Pisces tend to have problems with being on time, but many Pisces just prefer self-employment to 9-5 jobs, which normally means working under someone else. 

As far as books go? Um, well, fantasy-genre, especially high-fantasy. Anything with a dystopian society or alternate realities, too. I personally love magical realism, taboo, occult, and paranormal topics. That doesn’t really help, either, does it? :c 


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Anonymous wrote: "how much do Pisces believe in fate and luck? I feel like I do believe in fate more strongly than others but that may be just me."

Well, I haven’t read into this, actually. Thinking about Pisces nature, I would think a Pisces believe in fate and luck more than other signs— but…

Hey followers! How many of you Pisces believe in fate and luck? 


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cherrymelodies-deactivated20121 wrote: "Do you think it's hard to get to know a Pisces? I feel like I am very secretive and I often feel uncomfortable sharing my dreams and creativity with other people I'm not extremely close to. I see the world in a really beautiful way and it's hard for me to share that with other people."

Well, yes and no.

I think it’s easy to understand the “basic gist” of a pisces. I think the majority of Pisces are quite… well, exposed? I mean, I think if you looked at a person who fit the stereotypical Pisces, many people would describe them with words that were more-or-less truthful about them! You know, words like: shy, sensitive, caring, etc. But that hardly sums up a person! However, I think a lot of people might just leave it at that, and think they understand the Pisces completely, when they just know the face-value. Does that make sense? Pisces are often compared to the ocean— the ocean is vast, deep, and most of it hasn’t been explored yet. Most people only see the face of the ocean; likewise, most people only see the surface of a Pisces! Because, yes, as you said— I think many of us are a little secretive or feel uncomfortable? Or perhaps don’t reveal everything? Like the ocean, Pisces have many layers. And many Pisces, I think, don’t often reveal all the different layers to the way they think, or feel, etc. Therefore, because many people don’t get through all those layers, we might feel as though we’re hard to “get to know." 

So, I think it’s easy to understand a Pisces’ nature at face value— but that alone doesn’t mean much, especially since I believe Pisces have a lot underneath that face value.


sinegrove-deactivated20140914 wrote: "So I'm a march 12 and this person I've just recently started talking to is a scorpio (November 16).I usually reject his type at all cost. But there's something about him, like who he really is. The problem is he won't show his inner,real self at all. No matter what I do. So do you think he will ever reveal that? Am I supposed to work for it? Is all this work good for nothing? Is this even a good match to begin with? Thanks a bunch(:"

Well, yes, Pisces and Scorpio are generally quite compatible. So, don’t worry! By rule of thumb, your effort isn’t in vain. <3 Now, Scorpios I think test people. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. They’re quite protective of their inner-self, because I think most realize how sensitive they truly are on the inside. Now, let’s look at Scorpio— they’re a fellow water sign, but the Scorpion (like the Crab), is covered with an exoskeleton. Pisces is the only water sign that is not shielded with a hard exterior! Likewise, Scorpio (and Cancer), are quite protective and conceal themselves quite a lot. Almost innately! Will he ever reveal his true, inner self? Well, maybe, maybe not. See, Pisces are generally quite empathic, and can normally sense what Scorpio’s interior workings are. That’s one of the beauties of this pair. I think Scorpio, however, might reveal himself after he learns Pisces truly does understand him. This would take quite a while, though. It might take a bit of work, yes, but I think it might prove worthwhile. 


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