Pisces Paradox

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I’m a pisces male here is my entire chart. I am dating a Leo Female (i’m not sure her moon or ascendant… i know that we need to work hard for the relationship to work (we have been together for almost 4 years), but sometimes it feels she is unwilling to work with my feelings. she can be incredibly blunt and sarcastic and speak what is on her mind without thinking of my emotions. i on the other hand am very sensitive towards these kinds of things, and i have tried to ask her to stop saying things certain ways or to not always speak her mind because her words hurt me more than she knows. she keeps saying that i am trying to change who she is as a person when really i’m trying to help keep our relationship working because i dont want to be around someone who is gunna make me feel bad about myself at times. dont get me wrong she isnt like this all the time just occasionally… but she wants me to not be so sensitive and i feel like she is trying to change my personality and all im trying to do is get her to leave out certain words and sarcasms that offend me yet she feels like that is me trying to change who she is. Any advice on what we can do to make this work and your opinion on a pisces (with my chart) and a leo relationship. (sorry this is so long) 
— theonlypathleft

Okay, so, I’m kind of scratching my head a little. Why are you in this relationship? I mean, I understand there must be something valuable here for you to have been in this relationship for nearly four years— but it sounds like you’re quite hurt. Are you really in a relationship where the pros outweigh the cons? Or are you in a toxic relationship you’re desperately trying to save? I have to ask partly because of what you said here, and also partly because Pisces are notorious for not knowing when to back out of a relationship. They’ll stay in too long, hoping to save it, or because they’re scared they won’t find love elsewhere, etc.

A Pisces needs someone who is attentive to their feelings, and if your partner isn’t sensitive to your feelings… well, I just worry for your well being. :c also, if she’s accusing you of trying to change her, and you said you feel like she’s trying to change you… I can’t help but feel as though perhaps you two aren’t meant to be. Now, I know that’s not what you want to hear. But, you’re a sensitive guy right? And it’s not like you can just stop being sensitive. It’s who you are! It’s part of your personality! You can’t just morph who you are to please her. :c 

Therefore, no, I don’t really know what you can do to improve your relationship. My honest advice is to think about whether or not you ought to even be with this girl… :c 


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Anonymous wrote: "I'm a pisces girl, can I get Aries or Libra boy? Who's more match with me?"

Of course you could get an Aries or Libra boy. c: But, generally speaking? As a Pisces, you’re probably more likely to get along romantically with an Aries than a Libra. 

However, if you have a Venus Sign in, say Aquarius, you might prefer a Libra! Compatibility isn’t quite so black-and-white. c: 


Anonymous wrote: "Is it normal for Pisces to be less sociable than most people? I'm fine with not socializing with people for long periods of time."

Well, I think out of the zodiac, Pisces are more like to be less social than other signs. So, yes. Most Pisces are content on being alone for a period of time; we enjoy being with our thoughts, and being alone allows time to do this. However, Pisces can still be quite social! Pisces can get along with all types of people, after all. c: But being that most Pisces seem to be introverts… ? Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people. So,it makes sense that the majority of Pisces are fine not socializing for long periods of time. c:


Pisces Confession: 

It’s just so much better to live in my own world in my head than deal with everything else. Everything in my world is beautiful, warm, and loving out here it’s not. If I could stay in my own world without any repercussions I think I would.


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Anonymous wrote: "I really have problems dealing with friends, on different situations. Also making new friendships, still don't know why I so much friends, when I'm unable to make new friends."

Well, are you depressed? :c Like, not just every now and again— I mean clinically… Many depressed people describe having problems dealing with their friends, and have a lot of problems making friends. I don’t mean offense, but perhaps you ought to seek help elsewhere… ? :c Like, getting help with depression. 


cxxhxx-deactivated20140528 wrote: "Hello :) I'm an Aries Sun with my Moon, Mercury, Mars, Saturn, and my 7th house in Pisces. Does this make me more Pisces than Aries? I have also read that Pisces is an unfavorable sign in chart placement :( what does all this Pisces in my chart mean?"

whaaat. an “unfavorable sign in chart placement”? who wrote that? xD there isn’t a particular sign in a chart that is “unfavorable.” so, don’t worry about that.

and, are you “more pisces than aries”? Well, you’re certainly more Pisces than a lot other Aries! But, generally? The sun sign keeps the other planets/houses “in check,” and that influence of Aries ought to still be there. BUT. That’s really a call for you to make, don’t you think? :u 


Anonymous wrote: "What do you see a pisces studying history or science? (What do you think is a perfect major for a pisces? )"

… neeiiither. Between the two? Both are honestly fair game. History I think could be interpreted as “Historical Fiction” to a Pisces— you know, perhaps they go off on fantastical tangents while studying. However, science has a lot of theories… and it offers a lot of different fields. I could see a Pisces enjoying the ability to move from field to field. 

However, I think most pisces would be most content having some sort of artistic, social science, or humanities major. As far as a “perfect major”? I can’t say. What one major may have in a surplus, they also lack  in something else. 


Anonymous wrote: "Are Pisces bad at following rules and or laws?"

Depends on the rule / law ~

I think if a Pisces feels a rule or law goes against their morals or what they think is right, they might be bad at following it. But Pisces are generally “go-with-the-flow.” So are they bad at following rules? No, not necessarily bad


Anonymous wrote: "How do I help my Pisces overcome their fear of commitment?"

Well, people can have a fear of commitment for different reasons.

Some people have an intense fear of abandonment, so they push people away before they can leave them so as to avoid feeling abandoned. Others worry about loving someone who will betray them. More commonly, I think, people associate commitment as something concrete. They think they might be invaded— like, their personal space, or free time, etc. I mean, there are really a lot of reasons.

Thinking about the Pisces behavior though? I’m willing to bet it has something to do with worrying they’re going to be too emotionally invested, only to be hurt in some way. Before you consider my advice, please consider perhaps thinking about why they fear commitment in the first place? Because once you understand why they fear commitment, you’ll be able to best address the issue.

However, if it’s really because they are afraid of being hurt, I think that’s an issue of trust. Maybe not so much on trusting you, but it could be past experiences that make them wary of relationships, too. 

:c It’s difficult to change someone’s mindset, though. If it IS about trust, you’ll just have to show by example, I think. 


anniedancingprincess wrote: "I have a possible almost relationship with a cancer/gemini cusp, he has a sag moon too. My moon sign is Taurus, I'm a pisces. Should there be anything I should watch out for, or prepare myself for things?"

Well, your moon signs aren’t very compatible… which would mean that the way the two of you approach things at an emotional level differ. He might come of insensitive to you because of this difference.

If he leans more towards the gemini side of the cancer/gemini cusp, this insensitivity might be even more prevalent. 

So, be prepared for that as a possible characteristic?