Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "Hi I saw your advice below and love it. I could use some about a Taurus born May 13th who is 5, almost 6 yrs younger than me. I'm a March 20th Pisces. We're great friends but we argue a lot, too. I'm totally confused about him and whether to even try to take it to the next level?"

c: thanks, firstly. <3

Well, the TaurusxPisces relationship is one I’m, personally, kind of ambivalent with. Apparently TaurusxPisces have great marriage rates. And usually Taurus are really great at grounding a Pisces. And I think this is a couple that works well in theory? But maybe sometimes is a bit odd when … actually applied… 

In your case, I’m even more hesitant. Your a Pisces-Aries cusp, giving you that stubborn edge that Aries has. And Taurus is already pretty darn stubborn, too. Thus, the potential for arguments. I mean, I personally have the mind to believe that when people are in relationships they change a little? If you think there’s a chance, go for it. Don’t let astrology dictate your love life. c:


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Anonymous wrote: "my birthday is march 15th 95, my boyfriend is a leo, august 12, 92. is that good?"

I cheated and used a compatibility index:

63% Your relationship is smooth, and everything is possible. You simply need to adjust to each other and you can easily do so. It only takes a minimum of warmth and mutual understanding for your couple to function steadily in spite of some rare disagreements. You must turn your marvelous relationship into a success love story because you have all the necessary keys and assets to this end. So, go for it! 


lilithhale-blog wrote: "Can you advise 8. march 1995 born pisces that feels kinda lost..."

Feeling lost for you, in your case, I’m willing to bet has something to do with your age. You’re seventeen now that your birthday has past, right? Goodness, given your age I’d be a bit worried if you didn’t feel lost. I don’t know where you live of course, but I’m willing to bet your in an area where you’ll soon be leaving a high school of some kind, going off to college? Parents/Guardians are expecting you to make something of yourself? But, you’re only seventeen— how on earth are you supposed to make life decisions right now? That would certainly cause anyone to feel lost. 

However, just saying you feel kind of “lost” is a bit too vague. :c Lost… socially? Do you feel distant from everyone? Do you feel as though you’ve lost yourself? Perhaps you don’t even quite know what “type” of lost you are. And maybe that’s the first step for you? To identify, more-specifically, in what manner you feel lost. Unless you feel you already know? In which case, you’re welcome to message me again. c:


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The Day Of The Great Leap 

MARCH TWELFTH

Strengths: Daring. Intense. Visionary. 
Weaknesses: Reckless. Unstable. Foolhardy.

Tarot Card: The Hanged Man

Personality

The courageous, determined individuals born on this day are tough enough to withstand the setbacks and disappointments of life and later make use of their seasoned experience. Struggle is no stranger to March 12 people, who seem to thrive on overcoming obstacles of all kinds. They are somehow able to take whatever natural abilities they have been given and drive them to the limit. Not infrequently they have a strong vision or concept of what kind of person they wish to be.

However, it is important that March 12 people keep themselves directed, for they tend to be multi-talented, and as such are vulnerable to scattering their energies. Those born on this day who find themselves carried away, first to this interest and then that, would do well to at least limit themselves to related fields within one industry or profession.

Most March 12 people are undaunted by risky ventures, and even leap into situations which most people avoid at all costs. Perhaps they believe that the greatest rewards are granted to those who have the faith to lay everything on the line. However, there is also no denying that danger in and of itself attracts them, as does controversy. They secretly enjoy being the subject of conversation, though they may deny it. Often March 12 people give the impression of wanting nothing better than to be left alone in their secretive, private world—that is, until they suddenly reveal themselves and what they are doing, and even flaunt it!

March 12 people usually believe in what lies beyond the here and now—in other worlds, other planes of existence, other realities. Yet the image they present is quite hard-headed and down-to-earth. They have a way of combining the physical and the metaphysical, reveling in the former but being intelligent enough to ultimately put it in service of the latter. Somewhere in the back of their minds they know that all of life is transitory. Whether they are religious or have strong spiritual leanings or not, they recognize that there are timeless principles and forms which stand behind this passing show. Hence, the more intellectual of March 12 people demonstrate a remarkable capacity to think on an abstract level.

Certain enthusiastic March 12 people must be careful of getting carried away by their faith in unearthly happenings. Until they have developed a deep understanding of metaphysical and esoteric principles, they will tend to undermine their emotional stability if they overindulge in such thoughts. A simultaneous development of worldly and spiritual goals usually suits them better, enhancing their daily life and promoting the stability needed for metaphysical ruminations. Balance is the key to reducing the dangers associated with such leaps of thought and action.

Meditation
Caution should not be mistaken for cowardice 


hey guys, 

I know a few of you have sent me asks for advice, I want to make sure you know I’m not ignoring you. c: I’m just having some problems of my own, okay? And it’s a little difficult trying to respond to you guys when my mind’s all cluttered up. I promise I’ll reply when I feel better. <3

* also, I hope to get around to making those “pisces traits” picture posts some time soon. Bah, school & life, always in the way of things!


Anonymous wrote: "So I'm a Pisces female and the guy I like is a Gemini.. I looked up the compatibility of the two and it's not good. But we both like the same things and my friends have said that we'd get along really well and we have the 'same' personality. Help?!?"

Every sign has a chance, c: I promise. Sun sign compatibility are like loose guidelines. If it makes you feel any better, my mother and father are an Aries&Taurus, which by rule of thumb are horrendous. But they have the strongest bond out of every married couple in my family! Plus, it’s not just about your sun sign when it comes to love in astrology. c: You have to consider your moon sign, venus sign, and even your ascendant.  If you like the guy, and he likes you, go for it sweetie. <3 


salomevictoria wrote: "I need some advice, i'm a pisces born 23 feb 1992, I'm struggling bad, and my feelings are all over the place. I need help understanding my feelings, my feelings to a very special guy..."

Well, after re-reading the February 23 birthday profile [/because your message doesn’t give me entirely too much to work off of, unfortunately], it seems like people born on your birthdate like to have a more-or-less realistic view of things? To me, this translates to a… balance between “feet on the ground” and “head in the clouds.” You know the saying, right? I think Pisces would feel suffocated if their head weren’t in the clouds at least a little— but perhaps you like to make sure your feet are still on the ground, too! Er, what I’m trying to get at here, is perhaps you feel as though you’ve lost your footing. It’s my understanding of Pisces, that many of us don’t care /too/ much when we don’t have a firm understanding of our feelings. But this upsets you, clearly. “They’re all over the place.” Which to me makes me wonder if that balance between “head in the clouds” and “feet on the ground” has been thrown off because of this guy. Am I on target so far? 

IF this is true… maybe instead of focusing on the “what” of your feelings, you ought to simply be focusing on grounding yourself again. I suspect that maybe if you can find a way to get your “feet back on the ground,” you’ll feel a whole lot less anxious. And, typically? If your mind is less tainted by feelings of anxiety, worry, struggle, etc. you’ll more-easily be able to identify what you’re feeling. 

How do you ground yourself, you might be wondering? Well, speaking from experience: I meditate, walk around barefoot in the grass— I just relax. Unwind. I let nature try and find a place in my body. Pisces symbolizes the human body ascending into the cosmos. It’s very easy for us to feel like a part of something greater, so it’s good for Pisces to ground themselves. 

I hope if you can manage to ground yourself, it will indeed become easier to identify your feelings— because I can’t do that for you (nor can anyone else). Talk it over with yourself; out loud might even be more productive. Good luck. I wish you well. c:

[/I’m making this public because I think many people can identify with this. If you wish for me to take it down, I will do so and copy/paste my answer and send it to you. Just message me and I’ll do so.]


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The Day Of Progressive Intuition 

MARCH ELEVENTH

Strengths: Intuitive. Tasteful. Charming. 
Weaknesses: Possessive. Claiming. Domineering.  

Tarot Card: Justice

Personality 

Those born on March 11 keep abreast of the times. Whether liberal or conservative in outlook, they are progressive in thought. That is, they know that to be out of touch with or unaware of what is going on socially around them is perhaps to say goodbye to one’s career. They see the world as a highly competitive place where only the quick and clever survive. In their private lives, however, they allow themselves to express the dreamier, more relaxed side of their nature, chewing over ideas and speculation through conversation with friends or family and perhaps developing imaginative projects. In both areas of their life, however, the unifying talent which they employ is their intuition, which for the most part serves them well.

March 11 people believe that if they stand still in the world they are going backwards, since others will simply leave them behind. They are nonetheless moderately, rather than fiercely ambitious, moving ahead with assurance and clarity of vision. Should they work a regular job, they will put themselves in a position in which they can be promoted, but may not actively push or politic for it. Their idea is that by making valuable contributions they will be noticed and advanced at the right time. Whether this is a correct assumption or not may depend on the fairness of their work environment and the culture in which they live.

If they are self-employed or own their own business, they have a decided talent for seeing a hidden opportunity and going for it. Once they have assessed such an opportunity they will not hesitate to put a sizeable part of their material resources in the service of their intuitions. Thus they make good investors and gamblers, since they are courageous enough to take educated risks but wise enough to avoid foolish endeavors.

Another trait which serves them well is their taste. They not only have an instinctive feeling for what is good and worthwhile, but also are quick to learn about what makes objects or ideas valuable. Some March 11 people can even select items which appear phony or cheap but later prove to have great worth.

March 11 people have a claiming and controlling aspect to their personality. They don’t part with what they have very easily, and that goes for people as well as for things. As family members they invariably find themselves in the center of what is going on, where they can exercise powerful decisions affecting the lives of both their parents and children. They must avoid arousing antagonism and rebelliousness in the latter who may wish to have a greater degree of freedom or independence.

In many areas, March 11 people could learn to let go a bit more, to relax their control over their environment. More highly evolved individuals born on this day will learn to trust the Universe and to realize that in essence nothing is really lost, thus freeing themselves by renouncing a claiming attitude. Ultimately their intuition will lead them to value their own freedom more than either possessions or personal control.

Meditation
Imagine having to carry everything you own 


Anonymous wrote: "Could you advise a very unhappy Pisces born march 4 th 1954?"

Of course. c:

I’d love to advise you, anon. However, simply going off of “March 4th, 1954” is a bit of a shot in the dark! If you could perhaps highlight issues you struggle with, I’d be more than happy to elaborate. (Privately, if you wish— in which case, you’d have to come off of anon) I ask you to specify what you need advice on, only because I can think of so much that could potentially need advising. To make sure you understand exactly what I mean by highlighting the issues you struggle with… 

• Do you feel too distant and alone from the rest of the world? 
• Are you an altruistic individual who feels you give way more than other people you know— and in turn, feel as though you care about your friends/family more than they care about you?
• Do you feel so innately/naturally alone, that you allow people to walk over you and/or use you because of the fear if you don’t let them use you, you’ll just be alone? 

etc. But, I’m always here for people who need it. Promise. <3


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The Day Of The Soul Searchers 

MARCH TENTH

Strengths: Sensitive. Empathic. Soulful. 
Weaknesses: Long-suffering. Withdrawn.

Tarot Card: The Wheel Of Fortune

Personality 

Those born on March 10 are deep, emotional individuals. Their drive for success is often rather low-key and they may be more concerned with understanding themselves and coming to grips with their complex personalities than they are with fortune, power or fame. This does not mean to say that March 10 people are overly self-involved or somehow self-indulgent. On the contrary, they love to have fun, particularly in an intimate social setting with close friends, and are most happy when they occupy a central position in their families, surrounded by nurturing and protective influences.

The sensitivity of March 10 people is pronounced. They are easily hurt, feel rejection keenly and want little more than to live in peace with their fellow human beings. However, those born on this day who have experienced traumatic childhood episodes, deep psychological wounds inflicted by a hurtful parent or overly rigid moral systems placed on them early in life, can retreat from the world into a private, inaccessible emotional space and stay there.

Because March 10 people are so sensitive, they experience the highs and lows of life as few others do, and therefore are more likely to turn inward and search their souls, to try to understand themselves. Through this inner development they cultivate empathy to the pain and suffering of the misfortunate, and for this reason, many born on this day opt for a service-oriented career. The more highly evolved of March 10 people show great sympathy and kindness for others, even to the point of being self-effacing and saintlike. As parents March 10 people tend to be nurturing and understanding, but must beware of a tendency to be overprotective and subtly manipulative.

Generally, March 10 people put personal considerations before anything else. Also since they are so highly developed in the emotional realm, they may not develop their willpower and mental toughness as fully as they might. Consequently they can drift or stagnate, not having the strong desire or ability to better their circumstances. For the less talented or gifted of March 10 people, qualities of acceptance and passivity may not be so desirable.

In putting emphasis on internal rather than external values, March 10 people are oriented toward an idealistic, non-materialistic value system. Yet they nonetheless display a great need for security and a marked desire for simple comforts, which becomes more evident with advancing age. The danger here is that they will stagnate and fail to carry their personal development any further. It is true that their exploration of inner emotional worlds (theirs and others’), deepens their sensitivity and makes them more soulful, but they must not use this activity as an escape from expressing themselves outwardly or making crucial decisions.

Meditation
One soul may inhabit many bodies