Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I'm a Pisces male. I thought I fell in love with my close friend who is a female Gemini. Turns out she didn't love me and can't ever love me despite the nights before of our passionate encounters. She still loves another person. Now I'm heart broken. I'm conflicted because I still want to be her friend because I have deep rooted feelings for her, but at the same time I feel so hurt that I can't bare to see her. I don;t know what to do."

That sounds really miserable. :c I know it doesn’t mean much, but I’m sorry you have to go through this. As Pisces, I think we get a sort of rush when we’re in love… and when we’re rejected, we’re suddenly suffocated. It’s a horrible, horrible transition to go through. I think it might be good to focus on loving yourself. This isn’t to say, ignore this friend and your feelings… And there's going to be a hole there; it might not ever completely close back up completely. Know that you are worth loving, and practice giving yourself unconditional love. In doing this, you’ll probably have to distance yourself from her. Let the intensity of the situation dwindle with time. When you finally think you’re “emotionally prepared” enough to be around her again, work on picking up on your friendship. <3 I hope the situation gets better for you sooner than later. 


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