Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I'm a pisces male and she's a gemini (gemini/taurus cusp..?[may 23]). I feel like this 'relationship' is blowing hot and cold air. One day she'll talk to me all day up until the break of dawn, then the next day it's like I don't exist. These mixed messages are on the brink of driving me nuts :\ Is this a sign that she just suddenly lost interest?"

Personally, in my experience/observations, I’ve noticed that air signs are often independent-lovers. Aquarius gets that label a lot, for example. But when you consider the Pisces nature, and how a lot of us seem to view love as a “bonding of two souls, becoming one entity,” the air sign is very much different than this. They seem to hold more weight on the sense of individuality. Again, that’s just my own personal observation of air signs. And if you do think of it that way, it might be very difficult to tell if they’re simply “being independent” or have “lost interest.”

However, Gemini’s are pegged as “the communicator” … so if she’s ignoring you/not speaking to you… I am personally inclined to lean towards the thought that she’s lost interest.

Have you considered bringing up these feelings to her? I’d hate for you to now assume she’s not interested if that’s not the case! It’s always possible that it’s completely unintentional, after all.