Pisces Paradox

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salomevictoria wrote: "I need some advice, i'm a pisces born 23 feb 1992, I'm struggling bad, and my feelings are all over the place. I need help understanding my feelings, my feelings to a very special guy..."

Well, after re-reading the February 23 birthday profile [/because your message doesn’t give me entirely too much to work off of, unfortunately], it seems like people born on your birthdate like to have a more-or-less realistic view of things? To me, this translates to a… balance between “feet on the ground” and “head in the clouds.” You know the saying, right? I think Pisces would feel suffocated if their head weren’t in the clouds at least a little— but perhaps you like to make sure your feet are still on the ground, too! Er, what I’m trying to get at here, is perhaps you feel as though you’ve lost your footing. It’s my understanding of Pisces, that many of us don’t care /too/ much when we don’t have a firm understanding of our feelings. But this upsets you, clearly. “They’re all over the place.” Which to me makes me wonder if that balance between “head in the clouds” and “feet on the ground” has been thrown off because of this guy. Am I on target so far? 

IF this is true… maybe instead of focusing on the “what” of your feelings, you ought to simply be focusing on grounding yourself again. I suspect that maybe if you can find a way to get your “feet back on the ground,” you’ll feel a whole lot less anxious. And, typically? If your mind is less tainted by feelings of anxiety, worry, struggle, etc. you’ll more-easily be able to identify what you’re feeling. 

How do you ground yourself, you might be wondering? Well, speaking from experience: I meditate, walk around barefoot in the grass— I just relax. Unwind. I let nature try and find a place in my body. Pisces symbolizes the human body ascending into the cosmos. It’s very easy for us to feel like a part of something greater, so it’s good for Pisces to ground themselves. 

I hope if you can manage to ground yourself, it will indeed become easier to identify your feelings— because I can’t do that for you (nor can anyone else). Talk it over with yourself; out loud might even be more productive. Good luck. I wish you well. c:

[/I’m making this public because I think many people can identify with this. If you wish for me to take it down, I will do so and copy/paste my answer and send it to you. Just message me and I’ll do so.]


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