Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "How do I help my Pisces overcome their fear of commitment?"

Well, people can have a fear of commitment for different reasons.

Some people have an intense fear of abandonment, so they push people away before they can leave them so as to avoid feeling abandoned. Others worry about loving someone who will betray them. More commonly, I think, people associate commitment as something concrete. They think they might be invaded— like, their personal space, or free time, etc. I mean, there are really a lot of reasons.

Thinking about the Pisces behavior though? I’m willing to bet it has something to do with worrying they’re going to be too emotionally invested, only to be hurt in some way. Before you consider my advice, please consider perhaps thinking about why they fear commitment in the first place? Because once you understand why they fear commitment, you’ll be able to best address the issue.

However, if it’s really because they are afraid of being hurt, I think that’s an issue of trust. Maybe not so much on trusting you, but it could be past experiences that make them wary of relationships, too. 

:c It’s difficult to change someone’s mindset, though. If it IS about trust, you’ll just have to show by example, I think. 


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