I’m a pisces male here is my entire chart. I am dating a Leo Female (i’m not sure her moon or ascendant… i know that we need to work hard for the relationship to work (we have been together for almost 4 years), but sometimes it feels she is unwilling to work with my feelings. she can be incredibly blunt and sarcastic and speak what is on her mind without thinking of my emotions. i on the other hand am very sensitive towards these kinds of things, and i have tried to ask her to stop saying things certain ways or to not always speak her mind because her words hurt me more than she knows. she keeps saying that i am trying to change who she is as a person when really i’m trying to help keep our relationship working because i dont want to be around someone who is gunna make me feel bad about myself at times. dont get me wrong she isnt like this all the time just occasionally… but she wants me to not be so sensitive and i feel like she is trying to change my personality and all im trying to do is get her to leave out certain words and sarcasms that offend me yet she feels like that is me trying to change who she is. Any advice on what we can do to make this work and your opinion on a pisces (with my chart) and a leo relationship. (sorry this is so long)
— theonlypathleft
Okay, so, I’m kind of scratching my head a little. Why are you in this relationship? I mean, I understand there must be something valuable here for you to have been in this relationship for nearly four years— but it sounds like you’re quite hurt. Are you really in a relationship where the pros outweigh the cons? Or are you in a toxic relationship you’re desperately trying to save? I have to ask partly because of what you said here, and also partly because Pisces are notorious for not knowing when to back out of a relationship. They’ll stay in too long, hoping to save it, or because they’re scared they won’t find love elsewhere, etc.
A Pisces needs someone who is attentive to their feelings, and if your partner isn’t sensitive to your feelings… well, I just worry for your well being. :c also, if she’s accusing you of trying to change her, and you said you feel like she’s trying to change you… I can’t help but feel as though perhaps you two aren’t meant to be. Now, I know that’s not what you want to hear. But, you’re a sensitive guy right? And it’s not like you can just stop being sensitive. It’s who you are! It’s part of your personality! You can’t just morph who you are to please her. :c
Therefore, no, I don’t really know what you can do to improve your relationship. My honest advice is to think about whether or not you ought to even be with this girl… :c







