Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "Pisces, how do you be more social? I want to make more friends but don't knot how. I feel like a wallflower. Also, are Pisces good at picking the right type of friends for them?"

“Are Pisces good at picking the right type of friends for them?”
Um, generally? Pisces tend to have rather iffy tastes in the people they keep around them. I mean, kind of? It’s like, we don’t discriminate so much as to who we keep around us— partly because most of us have a hard time saying no. So, we get a lot of different types of people who wind up being out friends. So, we get the good and the bad.

But also, Pisces tend to be drawn to people who need help. Pisces like to help, they tend to feel their best when they help. And, more often then not… this forms a relationship in which an individual is accustomed to the Pisces putting their needs first. I’m of the belief that you teach people how to treat you. So, if you unintentionally teach people that their needs are more important, the Pisces can often wind up being in friendships where their needs are overlooked. So, it’s not necessarily that Pisces are picking out bad people— but… like, since Pisces have such a hard time establishing boundaries and saying no, that they often get the short end of the stick. Even if the friend is genuinely a good person! 

Does that make sense? 

&& I’m going to use your first question and make a text post so people can reply and offer their input. <3 


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