Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "I am an Aquarius female and am currently interested in a Aqua-Pisces cusp male... Can you please explain what is it with the "disappearing act?" I don't understand it as to me that's very Pisces and our chemistry was of course nothing short of stellar... Do Pisces males generally coming swimming back? And if they do I'm such an Aquarian that I would be so cold to him but I guess he'll also understand because he's a cusper."

The “disappearing act” could be explained by one of two things, really. As a Pisces, if we sense someone coming on too strong, we tend to flee. And, well, from the things I’ve read— no, we just tend to flee and be really hesitant about coming back. (It’s like the metaphor people use with doves? If you hold it too loosely, they fly away; too tightly, you kill it.) Now, if you’re already in a relationship, Pisces do tend to swim back— once we’re in love, it tends to be difficult to shake us off.

However, Aquarians also have their own type of “disappearing act.” If an Aquarius feels their space is being invaded, or their independence is at risk, they also tend to flee. 

Aqua-Pisces cusps, in my opinion, have all the makings for a rather avoidant individual. It might be difficult to get this guy to come back around. 


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