Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "Okay.. so I'm a Pisces with commitment issues, and I always seem to fall for Aries, which sucks because I read that Pisces are too clingy for Aries, and I'm like the clingiest Pisces ever. Anyway, is that normal? For a Pisces to have commitment issues?"

I know some Aries who are quite clingy. 
(I’m a Pisces who loveloveloves Scorpios, and I often become disheartened that even if I do miraculously wind up with a Scorpio, their infamous sexdrive would be the end of it, because I consider myself demisexual. Yet, I’ve had Scorpios tell me they’re asexual. Uh, moral— there’s always exceptions.)

On commitment issues: 
Love can be very scary to Pisces. I mean, to hear a Pisces say that they’re “in love with love” isn’t all that uncommon. Pisces tend to regard love as something really important to them; so many people, I think, would initially go, “Oh! They’d be naturals at love.” In my opinion, the more dear you regard something (in this case love), the more frightening it can seem. If a person really cares about love and relationships, I think it’s likely that they might be apprehensive about it. They don’t want to mess up something so potentially precious. Does that make sense? It’s akin to the concept of, “I’m going to push this away before it pushes me away, even though I really don’t want to." 

It wouldn’t surprise me if many Pisces have commitment issues at some point or another in their lives. 


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