Pisces Paradox

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"There are several routes out of the maze of illusion, betrayal and rejection - one of them is to turn your watery nature into ice, thus living a celibate existence and channelling your loving energy into other pursuits; another is to martyr yourself to a troubled and unfulfilling marriage, pining and withering on the vine. Many celestial Fish opt for either of these two courses. But there is a third way. By accepting that all human beings are flawed, and that we only truly find the heaven in another person once we have exited this earthly realm is a good start. No one person can make our lives for us: we must do that ourselves, but we may find someone who can share the journey with us. In working with the reality of a relationship and tossing out the dream factor you could find that you do indeed have a prince of a guy. And if anyone can find him, you can."

- Pisces in Love

(Source: astrolutely.com)






I want to make sure you understand what is meant by this post, as it might be confusing to some. It says here “volunteer, not the victim.” This is essentially because in toxic relationships— whether it be of a romantic relationship, friendship, etc—...

I want to make sure you understand what is meant by this post, as it might be confusing to some. It says here “volunteer, not the victim.” This is essentially because in toxic relationships— whether it be of a romantic relationship, friendship, etc— Pisces are enablers. They constantly forgive. So, for example, if a Pisces is in a relationship with a cheater, and the cheater says, “Oh, I’ll stop, it was just a mistake— I promise,” the Pisces is likely to forgive and try to forget. Thus enabling the cheater to cheat again. Eventually, the Pisces will realize they have “volunteered” to be in the toxic relationship, and have “volunteered” to let their emotions be used, and become absolutely furious.