Pisces Paradox

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Anonymous wrote: "me - pisces with capricorn moon, aries rising, aries venus and mars cancer. him- aries with cancer moon, sag. rising, aries venus, pisces mars. what are your thoughtst?"

I think these two individuals have a way of displaying their emotions that’s harmonious. The Capricorn Moon and Cancer Moon, in my opinion, are compatible. Likewise, I think the way these two individuals respond in situations and react to things would be similar (impulsive reactions). Additionally, what the two aspire from love is similar, as they both have Venus in Aries. 

I can’t help but wonder if the two would feel as though they’re on different wave lengths, though. In theory, the Pisces ought to resonate well with the Cancer Moon, but I’m wondering if there’d be a bit of a disconnect between the two. I don’t think they have emotional responses similarly, despite being able to communicate them in a likewise way. That might cause some rift. 

That’s just my initial reaction, though. 


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Anonymous wrote: "My best friend (guy) is a cancer and I am a pisces (girl). He is my best friend and I am his best friend so unfortunately we have developed feelings for each other but I don't want to date him and ruin our friendship but my friends are all telling me different things, advice?"

Are you certain that dating him would ruin your friendship? I mean— even if the dating doesn’t go well, do you think the two of you wouldn’t remain friends? If you both have feelings for each other, it’s possible that this could cause a rift within your friendship. 

Call me naive, but if you two are best friends, I’d like to think that even if dating doesn’t work out, you two would already have such a strong bond that you’d have the patience and effort to try and restore what you once hand. 

Astrologically speaking, Pisces and Cancer are a good match. I’d say give it a shot, but don’t go into it worrying about “when it fails and wether or not your friendship will be ruined.” That basically sets you up for failure. You have no idea wether or not it will ruin your friendship, after all. 


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Anonymous wrote: "i'm a pisces with sagittarius rising and libra moon and i really like this libra guy, we look like in pretty much everything. I was wondering if my rising and moon could make the relationship better"

With your sun-rising-moon combination, I imagine a Libra could be a pretty decent match for you, actually. c: 


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Anonymous wrote: "So I fell deeply in love with this Aries male (born March 23) and a few days after we had sex and all I found out he had a girlfriend since a month back... It was horrible and I asked him why he chose her (sagittarius) over me, he told me because of the distance (takes 4h with train) and this gives me hope since I still love him and I'm moving to the city close to his in the summer, should I keep my hopes up or try to get over him, being an Aries and all? I'm born March 16 if that means anything"

Okay, so, I’m not sure if I’m inserting too much personal opinion here, but try and hear me through. 

This Aries was willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you. As a Pisces, you might somehow contort this into being somehow romantic, and thus think if you were to be in a relationship with him he’d never do it to you— but, I urge you to consider that he already had a girlfriend. Now, if he sincerely only chose the Sag because of distance, and he’d choose you over the Sag if distance wasn’t a problem… I can’t help but wonder if he’d wind up cheating on you, too. We Pisces can have this tendency to enable cheaters, or people who could abuse us. We find ways to say, “Oh, well, maybe this was a one time thing,” or “They can change. I can help them!” Or even, “Our love will be so intense, they won’t want to do those things anymore,” and Pisces can get so caught up in this fantastic view of their partner, they get really hurt in the end. 

So, what you’re saying here sends a lot of red flags. My concern is that you’re willingly getting involved with an individual you know has “cheating behavior.” I’m focusing more on the stereotype Pisces have to getting involved in negative relationships, and I worry you’re setting yourself up to get hurt.


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Anonymous wrote: "I'm a female Pisces and I went out with a male Libra. The relationship didn't last long and it was kind of rocky but now that its over we've decided to be friends. Funny thing is we get along a lot better now. Is it natural that a pisces and libra are better friends than they are girlfriend/boyfriend?"

Typically, yes. Pisces and Libra will be better friends than partners. 


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Anonymous wrote: "Hi. So I'm a Pisces female born on March 16, and I read somewhere that I have a bit Aries in me (i know pisces have a piece of all signs in them) because I'm born this date, is it true? What does this really mean?"

Well, most sources I’ve read say the Pisces-Aries cusp starts on March 19. It’d be a bit of a stretch to include the 16th as part of the cusp, as it’s usually considered part of the third decan… but, I’m sure there are individuals who consider March 16th part of the cusp. 

Click on the links so you can read about Pisces III & Pisces-Aries Cusp.


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Anonymous wrote: "What does it mean if my sun, moon and ascendant sign are all pisces?"

It means, at the time of your birth, you just so happened to have these things all wind up in Pisces. If you’re asking about personality, I suppose all it really means is that you’re incredibly Pisces. In my personal opinion, this could be both a curse and a blessing. Water often can be like that, though. I mean, all life revolves around water (literally), but it’s incredibly destructive, too.


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Anonymous wrote: "pisces and leo? mine leo and i are totally perfect for each other and know we want to spend our lives together. just sometimes it's soo hard. i'm also talking to a libra and the sex is amazing but i dont feel like it'll be anything more than that.. any advise?"

Well, based on just the Sun Signs, I can’t give you too much insight in your case. Pisces and Leo “versus” Pisces and Libra I’d probably “rate” at around the same. Leo and Libra are masculine signs, which can easily suffocate Pisces feminine nature if they’re not careful. Both Leo and Libra enjoy being pampered, and Pisces doesn’t mind treating their partner like a prince/princess. From what I’ve seen and read, Pisces usually winds up feeling “used” in a relationship with either Leo or Libra. 

ANYWAYS, let me get to the point. I’d really want to look at more of the chart to give you more astrological advice on your situation. I can, however, give you my personal opinion: You might not feel like it’ll be anything more with a Libra, because Libras have a difficult time going into the Pisces spiritual realm. This could be the Gemini in my chart talking, but I do prefer Libra to Leo most of the time when it comes to Pisces. Libra is very sensual and romantic, as they are ruled by Venus, as I think this would perhaps be more appealing to Pisces, who is incredibly romantic.


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Anonymous wrote: "What's the compatibility with an aquarius-pisces cusp to a cancer-gemini cusp?"

Though the two are an air-water combo, and that in theory should be enough to ensure a harmonious relationship… I can’t help but wonder if the Gemini-Cancer cusp will be left feeling insecure. I suppose it depends on how much Cancer is really “at work” here, but, in general? Cancers really need a stability with their partner, and I’m unsure that an Aquarius-Pisces can offer that security. The Aquarius-Pisces may be too flighty, or wishy-washy, or be prone to acts of independence, which would probably leave the other feeling abandoned. 

It’s a little difficult to tell with cusps, because (in my experience) each tends to be their own unique blend of the two signs. It’s more difficult to generalize. 


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Anonymous wrote: "Opinion/info on a Pisces sun, Sagittarius moon, Virgo rising, and Aries Venus? ^3^ (I love this blog, btw!)"

(Thanks! c:)

Initially, this combination stikes me as a rather indecisive, probably anxiety-ridden individual. I wouldn’t doubt that you have strong analytical skills, and therefore tend to observe and take information in before you act. Your rising sign is Virgo, which would say that you’re cautious when it comes to engaging in social interactions and are quite methodical in a social atmosphere; however, the combination of Pisces & Sagittarius (moon) I can’t help but wonder if there’s indeed a bit of an impulsive nature when it comes to something sensitive, or close to your heart. I do think you value emotions over logic, though there’s probably a good balance within your character. 


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