Pisces Paradox

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creamy-chocolate-deactivated201 wrote: "Im a pisces and my boyfriend is a scorpio. What do you think about that relationship?"

What do I think about that? Well, I’m really biased towards this pair. I love Scorpios. Especially with Pisces. SO. I think you can maybe guess how I feel about that~ 


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jellyfish-hime wrote: "Do you know if pisces are the jealous type or are not morning people (I read somewhere they're often late so they can't do 9-5 jobs)? I just want to know if it's just me.. BTW, do you know any books pisces would like? I'm open-minded :3"

Um, I think many Pisces can be insecure— which can lead to jealousy? I mean, Pisces are prone to low self esteem, which tends to co-occur with insecurity. And, personally, I think jealousy stems from insecurity… so, perhaps? Haha, that’s not a very good answer, is it?

I do think Pisces are more of evening people than morning people, only because I recall reading that people who prefer the evening tend to be more creative? And Pisces tend to be more creative? However, I’m not sure if being late has to do with 9-5 jobs. ;; I mean, yes, I’ve heard that many Pisces tend to have problems with being on time, but many Pisces just prefer self-employment to 9-5 jobs, which normally means working under someone else. 

As far as books go? Um, well, fantasy-genre, especially high-fantasy. Anything with a dystopian society or alternate realities, too. I personally love magical realism, taboo, occult, and paranormal topics. That doesn’t really help, either, does it? :c 


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cherrymelodies-deactivated20121 wrote: "Do you think it's hard to get to know a Pisces? I feel like I am very secretive and I often feel uncomfortable sharing my dreams and creativity with other people I'm not extremely close to. I see the world in a really beautiful way and it's hard for me to share that with other people."

Well, yes and no.

I think it’s easy to understand the “basic gist” of a pisces. I think the majority of Pisces are quite… well, exposed? I mean, I think if you looked at a person who fit the stereotypical Pisces, many people would describe them with words that were more-or-less truthful about them! You know, words like: shy, sensitive, caring, etc. But that hardly sums up a person! However, I think a lot of people might just leave it at that, and think they understand the Pisces completely, when they just know the face-value. Does that make sense? Pisces are often compared to the ocean— the ocean is vast, deep, and most of it hasn’t been explored yet. Most people only see the face of the ocean; likewise, most people only see the surface of a Pisces! Because, yes, as you said— I think many of us are a little secretive or feel uncomfortable? Or perhaps don’t reveal everything? Like the ocean, Pisces have many layers. And many Pisces, I think, don’t often reveal all the different layers to the way they think, or feel, etc. Therefore, because many people don’t get through all those layers, we might feel as though we’re hard to “get to know." 

So, I think it’s easy to understand a Pisces’ nature at face value— but that alone doesn’t mean much, especially since I believe Pisces have a lot underneath that face value.


sinegrove-deactivated20140914 wrote: "So I'm a march 12 and this person I've just recently started talking to is a scorpio (November 16).I usually reject his type at all cost. But there's something about him, like who he really is. The problem is he won't show his inner,real self at all. No matter what I do. So do you think he will ever reveal that? Am I supposed to work for it? Is all this work good for nothing? Is this even a good match to begin with? Thanks a bunch(:"

Well, yes, Pisces and Scorpio are generally quite compatible. So, don’t worry! By rule of thumb, your effort isn’t in vain. <3 Now, Scorpios I think test people. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. They’re quite protective of their inner-self, because I think most realize how sensitive they truly are on the inside. Now, let’s look at Scorpio— they’re a fellow water sign, but the Scorpion (like the Crab), is covered with an exoskeleton. Pisces is the only water sign that is not shielded with a hard exterior! Likewise, Scorpio (and Cancer), are quite protective and conceal themselves quite a lot. Almost innately! Will he ever reveal his true, inner self? Well, maybe, maybe not. See, Pisces are generally quite empathic, and can normally sense what Scorpio’s interior workings are. That’s one of the beauties of this pair. I think Scorpio, however, might reveal himself after he learns Pisces truly does understand him. This would take quite a while, though. It might take a bit of work, yes, but I think it might prove worthwhile. 


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cxxhxx-deactivated20140528 wrote: "Hello :) I'm an Aries Sun with my Moon, Mercury, Mars, Saturn, and my 7th house in Pisces. Does this make me more Pisces than Aries? I have also read that Pisces is an unfavorable sign in chart placement :( what does all this Pisces in my chart mean?"

whaaat. an “unfavorable sign in chart placement”? who wrote that? xD there isn’t a particular sign in a chart that is “unfavorable.” so, don’t worry about that.

and, are you “more pisces than aries”? Well, you’re certainly more Pisces than a lot other Aries! But, generally? The sun sign keeps the other planets/houses “in check,” and that influence of Aries ought to still be there. BUT. That’s really a call for you to make, don’t you think? :u 


anniedancingprincess wrote: "I have a possible almost relationship with a cancer/gemini cusp, he has a sag moon too. My moon sign is Taurus, I'm a pisces. Should there be anything I should watch out for, or prepare myself for things?"

Well, your moon signs aren’t very compatible… which would mean that the way the two of you approach things at an emotional level differ. He might come of insensitive to you because of this difference.

If he leans more towards the gemini side of the cancer/gemini cusp, this insensitivity might be even more prevalent. 

So, be prepared for that as a possible characteristic? 


moskenstraumen-deactivated20120 wrote: "I can't reply to that ask so... I'll tell you here. I dance/sing (badly)/write poetry when I'm sad. Or just talk. But usually writing gets my feelings out... but sometimes it just makes it worse."

* For the sad Pisces 

Thank you! <3


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twisteddesiresx wrote: "As a pisces, I feel that my negative/sad feelings are so intense that I feel like I have depression! (I know I don't). So I was wondering how other pisces deal with this if they experience it? I usually try to think more positive but I'm still working on this haha :)"

Well, I mean, I probably don’t have the best response here because I actually have a small list of different diagnoses. I mean, it’s weird, because with other people, I am incredibly optimistic. But with myself? Not so much. But, yes, having a positive mindset can certainly help you! I mean, if you perceive something to be positive, you’re more likely to have a positive reaction. You know? I know expressing yourself creatively often helps a Pisces. Also, apparently surrounding yourself with water (ie: taking a bath), often helps with stress.

But, hey, followers!
What do you guys do to deal with your bouts of sadness? Specifically. Draw? Paint? Sing? Swim? Dance? 


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Um, how “we would see each other”? Do you mean… “How would would seem to each other”? Or… ? Well, I mean, I know this isn’t quite the same thing, but about a year ago I met a friend I met online. She’s literally my closest friend, and I’ve known her for about six years. Meeting her for the first time, yeah, it was a bit nerve-wrecking at first, but I think my Piscean nature helped me feel like I had, well, meet her before. You know? I’ve heard some couples talk about how “We had only met for the first time, but it felt like we’d hung out before.” And I mean, sure, PiscesxCancer are shy, gentle signs— but I think your emotions and passion for each other might very well give you that sort of sensation. 

As far as living together in the future? I’m not too sure I’m at liberty to answer. Yes, Cancers tend to be quite domesticated, and homebodies. I think a Pisces could adapt well to this. But I’m a little unclear what you’re looking for in that question? Do you want to know if the transition between living apart and living together will be difficult? Um, probably not. As a rule of thumb, the two of you are quite compatible. Pisces are so mutable and fluid it’s usually pretty easy for them to adapt, especially if it’s with/for someone they love.


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robbingabank-deactivated2012080 wrote: "So, I'm a pisces, and I really really like this guy who is a Sagittarius, and I mean I just really like him I can't stop not liking him no matter how many times I try. We went out for awhile, but he's still in love with another girl, which I understand, but we were really great friends for a while and could talk about anything, and I just want to know why he refuses to open up to me about things anymore, or even talk to me."

Okay, this is probably going to be a completely different answer than what you were looking for… but, bare with me, okay?

I think as Pisces, we approach things very differently than Sagittarius. We generally like to talk things out, and get very much satisfaction from having heart-to-heart conversations. I think, for the most part, Sagittarius differs here— especially a male Sagittarius. (Now, I normally don’t differ between the genders when I talk about astrology, but I’m also speaking here from a psychological perspective. What I’m specifically touching on does have an apparent difference between genders) I suspect most Sagittarius have a communication style that is different than most Pisces— from your situation, it almost sounds like he prefers to simply not address things, and almost… beat-around-the-bush. Or at least, as of lately? Yes? Well, if that’s true— you two have different styles of communication. And I wonder if he therefore perceives you in a negative light, and that’s why he won’t open up to you. I don’t know if that makes any sense to you— and I’m sorry if that’s a huge curve ball coming from a girl with a Pisces blog. 

But, think about it, will you? Do you think you two might have different styles in communication? A lot of times, when a person who has the talk-it-out style tries to engage with others, they get pegged as “condescending” when they’re only trying to help. It’s unfortunate, but it really closes off other individuals. It’s the first thing that came to mind, and I felt the urge to bring it up.

Going back to more of an astrological perspective:

Sagittarius are notorious for having flings. :c They convince themselves they like someone, become infatuated, and then it dies out. It almost sounds like he might’ve done this to you; and you, as a Pisces, loving and accepting, of course opened your arms to him and fell in love. :c Once the infatuation wares out, he might’ve very well… have gotten bored. It’s really unfortunate, and I hate to make it sound like Sags are bad people… but, I have seen this behavior a lot from Sags. 

Unfortunately, I think you might just need to give him his space. If you press him, he might just verbally attack you… you know? :c And that would only make things worse. 


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